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Survey: Choose from friends or love.?

In which do you agree?

1. Love will stay forever, friends will someday have their own life.

2. Friendship never ends, love will come and go

If you are not bothered, please state why.

I respect whatever answer you give. Thank you.

Update:

Okay, I should have made this question more clear.

What I meant about friends are people who are unrelated to you who became close to your life. Cousins, sisters, or parents are considered as family, even if you consider them as friends.

And for friends who became loved ones are considered as loved ones already, not friends.

I apologize for the misunderstanding.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    My opinion is 1.. People have friends and time comes for their love..

    A person's future is his/her loved one.. Your loved one and you will be making a family together..

    Friends must have their own lives someday, they'll have their own family.. No matter how long or how close you are with your friends, time will come that they are not very important because your first priority is your responsibilities to your own family, and your friends first priority is their own family..

  • 1 decade ago

    2

  • 1 decade ago

    I would have to say neither. Love doesnt always last forever and friends come and go. If a person is lucky they might find true love that last forever or a friendship that outlast any love or be lucky enough to have both a true love and a lasting friendship. Nothing in life is guarunteed except for death sad to say. Life is like playing the slots in Vegas . You might get real lucky or end up broke or just as easily come up even and then even if you are a winner or looser the time comes win you have to leave. You dont get to choose if you are a winner or a looser. Everyone wants to win but not everyone does. Life is a game of chance. If a person were to try to pick one over the other they could easily end up with nothing just like the slots. You could chance it and put your last 3 dollars in the machine and pull the handle hoping to come out a winner and loose everything or win the jackpot. you just never know. If a person were to choose love over a friend and loose the love they loose. If they choose the friend over the love the friendship could end and they end up with nothing. It is better not to choose and just enjoy those around you the most you can without choosing. A person could sit there and choose then end up dying the next day and would of lost out on the last few hours of their life with only one when they could of had two people in their life. If you have a love that wants you to choose then that person really isnt your love since they shouldnt be that selfish. If you have a friend who doesnt want you to have a love they really arent your friend since they really dont want to see you happy. ANd no I am not bothered by this because why should it bother me. I would feel sad to know that someone really would choose one over the other but thats about it and I don know that people really do choose one over the other all the time but since it is them that will suffer the consiquences and not me thats on them. Its thier choice.

  • 1 decade ago

    I guess iI believe in both. Friends do go there own ways when they find love. They will always be friends, but you should remain loyal to your love. And love does come and go, but so can friends. Since I've gotten, married, I only reamined close to 2 of my friends. I still talk to them al least 2-3 times a week, but my husband and children are more important. But if anything ever happened to my marriage, I know my friends will still be there. So I guess I'm saying, it's ok to attatch to your love, but don't let your freinds go either. If your friends don't like your new love, you should evaluate the love realtionship. Your freinds probably see something that you don't. You should never have to choose. But if it comes down to it, your freinds are probably right.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Neither is entirely right. Love is an everlasting thing and a loving friendship will last for a life time whether the friends are 'living their own lives' or not. Thus I believe love and friendship last forever.

    I guess I'm an optimist!=)

    God Bless!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Wow, right now I have decided that if they are my friends then they will be there through my love...you know what I mean. I will stay friends with them forever but at the same time..be in love...I would much rather have love tho...My best friend is my "sister" and my Mom...

  • 1 decade ago

    2.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    "Friendship never ends, love will come and go," is the most right, for my life right now (im single)

    But when Im truly in love then "Love will stay forever, friends will someday have their own life" will be right.

    It all depends on the situation!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    i suppose love and friendship is the best together, that is what makes the best marriages right, and i think it is those feelings of friendship more than romantic love that seem to last until death, there is love, unconditional love, but it is less about romance and desire, and more about kindness and compassion, so i think friendship love is better than romantic love,because friendship love last longer... so i choose friendship, nice question

  • DJ C
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Love, friends come and go and granted I have some who have been here forever I cannot share with them what I have with my fiance.

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