at what age is the child able to make a desision for themselves?

I think around age 12-14 would be a good age when a judge would actually consider allowing the child to make the decision. Before that the judge will listen to the child but the ultimate decision lies with the judge.

Most states allow children starting as young as 12 to decide which parent they perfer. Even though the child can tell the court which parent they would perfer the court does not have to go by the child's wishes infact they go by the best interest of the child. Most children will want to live w the parent that gives them more and gives in were as the other parent might be able to provide better so the courts do look at that

I think it all depends upon the maturity of the child & what the situation is. It's a rough decision to lay on the shoulders of child in the first place, but I would say 14-15 would be the age where a person can make up their own mind. I wish the best for you.

All I know is that in California there is no "set" age. The court listens to the chid's reasons for wanting the move then makes a decision based on what everyone has to say and what is best for the child. Just WANTING to live with another parent is not enough to convince the court though.

My church teaches that 8 years is the age of accountability. I think that is a bit young. From an ethical point of view I think a child can make this choice in the early to mid teens. Mileage may vary by child.

I always heard 13 years old. But speaking from experience don't push them to choose. I lived with my mother until I was 16 years old and then moved in with my dad and I had so much guilt about it that I moved out as soon as I turned 17 because I thought I had hurt my mom's feelings so bad then didn't want to hurt my dad's by moving back. Don't tell them they need to choose. I wouldn't even bring it up to them unless you think they would really love to leave the house they are living in

12-15

or just depending on what morals a child learns and how much common sense a child has

Its usually around 13 in all states I think.

12

A child really can petition the court and decide which parent they want to live with.

THATS A HARD DECISON FOR EVEN AN ADULT TO MAKE, I LIVE IN ALABAMA SO I AM NOT SURE. ASK SOME LAWYERS ABOUT THIS ISSUE, THEY SHOULD BE ABLE TO GIVE YOU SOME ADVICE.