Dating but not in love?

Question

I have been dating a girl for a while. She is a great person, she treats me very well, I do the same for her (she loves it), we have a lot of fun together, and I learn a lot. I have been with many girls, but never had a proper girlfriend. I have asked this question to many people everybody tells me not to leave her, because I should enjoy time with her. Should I leave her? Should I tell her I am not in love with her but I want to stay with her?

Update:

Thanks for your answers!!! They are great help. I know I am being selfish, but she has fun with me, and she loves to be with me. Does that not matter at all?

yuki · Accepted Answer

i felt if u dun like her, you should not waste her youth... Woman youth is short and limited....
But sometime you say you dun love her, but actually deep in your heart, you actually have feeling for her without knowing.. Dun regret your action so think twice before doing anything... :) good luck in your final decision..

stormymy · Answer

U r not finding reason not to get yourself into steady relationship. You are selfish. Only think of yourself. Getting yourself attached to someone, is a commitment, that you can't seem to find the courage to accept. Therefore you are giving yourself endless excuses as to you dun love the girl. 
Pls la, if u dun love the girl, at least you do like her enuf to spend time with her. Relationship starts from like. Finding instant love, is hard. Love at first sight is for dreamers. U need to wake up & open your heart to accept the lovely girl.

cheri · Answer

If you are so sure you don't love her why don;t  you try to find that love of your life that she seems not to be

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