where can u find a good guy/men?

i dream of the man as well , i wish that i could find the good and really good and always stand by me

many peole ask me out but i said no because they are not a man in my dream. but....

how can we know that person is the man in our drea if you don't give yourself chance and give that person chance. to let him try to show you, when first start he may not good enough but whatever you do keep going then everything will be much improve and you will be sure that he is a man you been waiting and looking for

Were all over. I will admit it is hard to find the right one (Heck Im still looking) Forget the bar/club scene unless you want a one time thing. Do the things that you like to do. If you keep seeing a guy you like go and talk to him because you already have one thing in common. I even hear the grocery store is become a great place to meet someone. Unfortunately there is no "quick fix" on meeting someone but in time you will. And dont be put on a pedestal unless your going to do the same with a guy. Its a turn off. Remember the higher you are on the pedestal the harder the fall from the top is.

When you least expect it! Travel, go out to places other then bars, put it out there to friends (guy friends too) you want a nice guy!

Don't be afraid to do a match.com thing. Imagine I'd never say that before but you can weed out the "odd".

A personal ad never hurts either. You can control who seems of interest. AND nobody has to know -

they will just think you're dating a lot.

I met my husband on a whim in Cancun 15 years ago.

I stopped wishing for Mr. Right and ran right in to him when I least expected it.

Good Luck he is out there.

I hope you haven't been hurt before, you certainly sound like you have. Don't berm too cynical, someday that one right one will come. That person may not be the one youy wished for, but you will learn to accept them for whom they are.

Besides, that kind of guys are probably snapped up by the minute! Don't worry, though, you'll probably meet one someday when you least expect it.

I'm here!