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BF mom doesn't like me I think...?

Ok. So, me aand my bf have been dating for over a month now. Everything has been fine. He's 5 years older then me and has a child but had to move back in with his parents last year. Now, I have been over his house a number of times but in the past few weeks his mom just doesn't want me over his house. Either she thinks we have been moving too fast or she is afraid of having anotehr grandchild or something.

His parents, and the baby's parents take care of the baby too. I don't understand how she would like me in the beginning but now it seems like she doesn't. My bf tells me that she does like me and it is just that she is being a b*tch this weekend. Maybe his mom thinks that we moved too fast or something. I don't know.

Update:

The baby's mom left him alone with the baby 3 months after she was born. Other then that he has dated other girls but all of them have either let him because he was too mice of a guy or cheated on him. So, maybe she is just afraid I'm going to up and leave him and she just doesn't want to deal with him when he loses a girlfriend.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I don't think she hates you the way you mite be thinking, she is probably afraid that you are not going to stay and you are going to just end up hurting them like the ex did. I think that you need to keep going over and let her know that you aren’t going to leave and that you aren’t like the ex.

    Source(s): myself
  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe his mom was just having a bad day. Don't read too much into things. Just keep being yourself and the mom will see that you care for her son and aren't going to hurt him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i wonder how someone can be too nice.

    your boyfriend's mother might want more privacy in her home. it probably doesn't have anything to do with you, personally.

    if you are so concerned about this situation, why not ask his mother if you can talk? she is the only one who can tell you what she thinks.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Pray.

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