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Melina A asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

Sex Drive...what is normal?

Is it normal for some men to have virtually no sex drive at all...even though everything works normally...no medical problem what so ever...aren't men suppose to want to have sex all the time.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Everyones sex drive is different. If a man never wants sex then he should see the doc to be sure there is no medical problem going on but if he just doesn't want it very often then he is fine.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you feel your sex drive is low, and you think it should be higher, you might want to have your doctor request a blood test for Testosterone. I had a similar problem to yours. It seemed like my sexual desire had dropped off from what it used to be. I discussed it with my doctor and he had me take a blood test. Sure enough, my Testosterone had dropped. My situation was related to a medication I was taking. I could not stop taking the medication so my doctor gave me prescription for a medication called Testim. Testim is a dose specific liquid that you rub on to your skin and then is absorbed into your body. It increased my sex drive and had a few other side effects, such as losing weight and gaining more muscle.

  • 1 decade ago

    it has been proven that men think of sex alot. I don't think that all people are the same, so I don't think that it is bad that a men is not that interested. It is not the "norm" but what ever makes ya happy I guess.

    I know as a woman if my man didn't want sex I would be upset. News flash! WOMAN WANT SEX TOO

  • 1 decade ago

    I think it depends on how old they are. Men's sex drive decreases as they get older.

    I have friends who are in their early 30's who have noticed a difference in their sex drive compared to when they were early 20's.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Normal is an elusive state, it could be anything. No interest in sex though should be checked out by a professional. In the meantime you could question him about his masturbation habits, maybe he would rather do that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Depends on how they are, if they dont have a desire to have sex (aka most men do) but something must have happened to him that makes him not want to have it, or.. he is just that way. There is nothing wrong. Talk to him about it

  • 1 decade ago

    Normal is what works for you.

    If you compare yourself to a guy who has sex every day, yoyu will feel inadequate. If you need it once a month, that is your "normal"

  • 1 decade ago

    no drive n showing no drive r 2 different things.

  • 1 decade ago

    yes, this is absolutely normal, some men may have different things to occupy themselves with and derive their pleasure from other activities, don't worry about it.

  • Pooks
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    what about the persons mental state? they could be depressed and not know it...

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