former fat girls:make fun or sympathizes with fat girls?

maybe it was the way i was raised, but i never made or make fun of anyone. people that do are hiding a lot of their own fears and insecurities by laughing or slamming on someone different from themselves. usually when i see someone making fun of someone i always wonder what in their lives are they masking, cuz its something, even if it aint visible. but to answer your question, i sympathize with fat girls. just keep this in mind. if you make fun of someone's faults, one day they may be your faults, and someone will be making fun of you. and try to talk to your friends that dont know any better and convince them not to make fun of people. its just plain rude and disrespectful.

It is simple as this...

Fat chicks need lovin too, but they dont get it cuz they spend all their time online and dont lose weight, they have no will power, and guys dont find that attractive... so they complain about it, lose friends, and make fake ones... other fat chicks that are the same...

They need to stop bitchin and moaning that they are fat and have no life or guys in it... and lose weight, that will fix it all...

Im used to be overweight too, Im a guy... I didnt like being single so long, I never really got made fun of much... but I was tired of it all, and I decided to lose weight and get it over with... So I did, and a few weeks later, I wasnt single no more...

I have no sympathy for fat chicks, or fat dudes... It isnt everyone else's fault, it is their own... they have the power to change that, but they still dont...

I try to encourage them to do so, but if it doesnt work then I make fun of them... for my own viewing pleasure...

If they make fun obviously their self esteem is still bad. You should always try to empathsize with peoples problems even if you didnt personally go through it. Thats maturity and being a good person.

Sympathise deffinetly. I hate the way society treats fat people, it can be a disease, it's not something to have made fun of.

i'd never make fun of a fat girl bc i know how it was to be fat. if anything i'll give them some support and advice if they want it.

I sympathize

Making fun of stout people isn't even right.

No one should make fun of them.

i am overweight, but i sympathize with other people who are bigger than me.

sympathise , being overweight makes it harder to move around and get moving.