Is it bad that I'm 19 and still a virgin?

Not a bad thing in any way. Sex is intended to bind a marriage. So if I were you, hang on to it till your married.

And don't let anyone talk you out of it, not even yourself!

No...It's wonderful. If more people did this the world would be without sexually transmitted diseases, without so many unwanted babies or illigitimate children, , without as many abortions, without as many heartaches and broke relationships and divorces.

It's like this:

Imagine you're invited to a buffet of imported delicacies and fresh delicious gourmet foods and an entire dessert table filled with amazing goodies.

If you wait till it's time for the meal you've commited to it will be amazing. But if you decide before you head for the amazing spread, that you want to have a couple of twinkees it will spoil your appetite with junk.

It's exactly like that. You're just saving your appetite for the good stuff when it will be good and right and not spoiling it by getting tempted with the human equivilant of "junk" which will spoil the classy and fun events to come later.

Good job and never lower your wonderful standards. Also never let any insecure poeple make you feel bad just because you're different from them. People who have no standards always wamt to make the ones who do feel bad, because they didn't have the same discipline to make the right decision.

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It is very Good that you are still a virgin! I was 20 and still a virgin when I gave in to the man I was engaged to. He broke up with me soon after. I should have waited until after the wedding. I had a engagement ring I really thought we would be married. When I did get married a year later ( to another man) I felt like used goods. Keep up your good standards! Don't follow along with what everyone else is doing. Wait for that special woman!

Nothing wrong with that at all. I don't know why there is a big pressure among young people to loose thier virginity. There will be a right time for things, just have faith and don't force the issue. Life is about living not see how far you can spread your seed.

Nothing wrong with that. No matter whether you are male or female the answer would be the same. I am a Christian and I feel that this is wht GOD would want of you. Are you a Christian? Have you considered HIS COMMANDS as important to you? Study these scriptures and see what you think. To become a Christian:

1. We must HEAR GOD’s WORD. - Romans 10:17 So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

2. We are told to BELIEVE. - To the Prison guard in Acts 16:31 Paul and Silas said, "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household."

3. We must REPENT (turn from) of our sins. - Acts 17:30 Truly, these times of ignorance God overlooked, but now commands all men everywhere to repent.

4. We are told to CONFESS CHRIST before men. - Matthew 10:32 "Therefore whoever confesses Me before men, him I will also confess before My Father who is in heaven.

5. We are to enter the waters and BE BAPTIZED. - Mark 16:16 He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe will be condemned.

6. We are told to CONTINUE TO BE FAITHFUL until death. - Revelation 2:10b Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life.

Send me a note if you have questions. I am anxious to hear from you. Have a Great day.

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no not at all respect your body wait for the right person it will make it all the better! sex is not somthing you have to try it doesnt make you better than virgins wait till you find the right person and express your love physically! you wont regret it i wish i had a chance like you! i was raped so i wish i had the oppotunity that you have! good luck have respect for yuorself and the right person will come along and dont let anyone tell you otherwise its your choice your body and sex is special. too many people abuse it now a days. i am in a long term relationship and i love me and my mans sexual relationship, its amazing and i could not imagine a one night stand or a sexual fling to even compare. good luck! x

No, I would say that's very good. It's a special gift to give someone. If you wait until marriage, and the girl you marry is ALSO a virgin, your wedding night will be twice as special!

If you are afraid of sex, it is worse than NOT having the proper avatar!

It is not BAD to be anything. People's beliefs confuse that answer! You are untouched as far as intercourse is concerned, but the experience of love making does NOT make a wizard out of you neither!

Find someone to CARE about. FInd someone to SHARE your life with. You will be FULLER because of it. If you enjoy sex with them,...you will be more completed also!

Some go through their whole lives without sex. They are not wrong, or less of a human being, they are simply inexperienced in the act.

If you feel short of the mark, then fall in love with someone and then see where it takes you!

You are the designer of your life. You set the stage and act the play. Pick-up your role and best of luck!

Believe it or not but most 19 year-olds are still virgins. Many might brag about their sexual conquests but they are usually lying. Take things in your own good time. When it happens, it happens. Don't expect the first time to be amazing, it probably won't be but you will get better with practice.

Not at all! I was a virgin until my wedding night, so there's nothing wrong with wanting to save it for that one special person! God applauds such conduct and warns against breaking those covenants of chastity before marriage.

No it's not bad. It's very noble if you only give it too someone you love--to someone you get married with, someone you will spend the rest of your live with.

Media is bad. It's making people think that virginity is something bad and embarrassing, it's not.

don't worry. Sex is not a toy. Trust me when you're doing it with someone you love, sex will be very sacred.