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What does this make me?

Basically I'm a MtF transsexual and I'm attracted to other women. Today was laundry day, so I went out in complete male mode, including button-up dress shirt, slacks, ect. I was just bored and decided to go out kinda as a drag king and I kinda enjoyed being a drag king. I'm hopping both ways over the gender fence! What kind of a label would you put on someone like that?! What kind of a sexual orientation would go along with that kind of a label?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Well, first off, cool! I've heard from only one other MtF who occasionally liked to do the drag king thing, and I thought that was the coolest thing ever, just like FtM's who do femme drag. How much fun- and how much security in your new gender identity- must you have to do that?

    What kind of label would I put? Well, basically, a transwoman drag king! I don't know that there's any better way to say it. I wouldn't give it a sexual orientational label, unless you felt part of the experience was sexual arousal at the idea of being cross-dressed as a man . . . then I guess you could call yourself a tranvestite or crossdresser, but if you still like women, you're still a MtF lesbian.

    Basically . . . you're just a lot of crazy fun, probably best put under the category of 'queer', I suppose. I know that doesn't help much, but it's the best I can do.

    Hope that helps!

  • 1 decade ago

    why do you feel the need to be labeled? I have heard the term two spirited, I believe it was a native American term for trans people but today it is used for people who walk the fence instead of choosing a side. by saying I am attracted to other women it identifies you as woman. what would you call a woman who is attracted to women I believe that would make you a two spirited lesbian. but I am just regular lesbian who was born genetically male what would I know.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't know, but there are women who would be interested in you. You will find someone. Just don't settle.

    I am not clear on exactly if transexual is that you had the surgery or that you just dress as female. But there are women I have heard of that are interested-either way.

    If you have not had surgery, maybe you are just having second thoughts on who you thought you were. Anyway, you were just having fun.

    There are regular women who look manly on a regular basis and regular men who look feminine.

  • 1 decade ago

    U shouldn't go by label's just be yourself.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    do you need a label? you sound like a great individual to me.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hon! people actually do not need labeling!!

    u are one of Ur kind!!!

    be proud of whom you are!!

    all the best!!

    best wishes!!!!

  • Zara3
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    a wonderful free spirit

    as you a free to be yourself and true to be your self

  • 1 decade ago

    You are who you want to be. I personally say: "Kuddos to you, be proud of who you are."

  • you are your own very specail you! Be who ever you think you are.

  • Luis
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    MTF lesbian.

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