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My boyfriend's friend has been flirting with me... What to do??

He is flirting with me and I'm not saying that I haven't flirted back.. and I'm definitely not saying that I dislike it. I am totally PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO HIM! I know it's wrong, but I just can't keep my eyes off of him and I'm pretty positive he has undressed me with his eyes... what should I do? Should I take the chance to have some ravaging wild sex, or should I stay with the man I love and am comfortable with? It's not fair to have these feelings... please tell me what to do!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    can you see yourself dating this guy if not just have the wild sex with your bf and imagine it being him

  • 1 decade ago

    Well if you really love your current man,don't cheat!!Even if you aren't happy with him,still don't cheat!!Cheating is wrong,even if he has done it to you.If your really not happy with your relationship,break up.You say that your physically attracted to him and yes tempation is a killer,but looks aren't everything.Does your boyfriend's friend know that you two are dating?If he doesn't maybe that's why he's doing it.But if he does then if you do break up with your boyfriend and you date the other guy he might see a girl or even one of YOUR friends that he might like and dump you and go out with them or even cheat on you.He could be disappointed in you for cheating and/or breaking up with his friend and do the same to you.Don't take the chance.Avoid him.If your comfortable with your current relationship,don't end it because of a really hot guy.It's not worth ending a perfectly happy relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    Get a hold of your hormones. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Disregard your feelings and maintain some distance from this so called friend. What would you want your boyfriend to do if he was in the same situation. Have a little decency about yourself!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    well dear its very nive tat both of u r attracted 2 each other in same way nd its indeed nice chance to get wild . but i like to tell u as he is ur boy friends friend take care nd get deep into the matter nd try to know his frnd better before deciding upon nything.......

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  • 1 decade ago

    Oh my! I understand! I went through the same thing a few years ago. So trust me! Go ahead, take a bite out of that apple!

    Source(s): P.S. I did.....and it was delicious! I've been married to him for two years now. :o)
  • 1 decade ago

    whatever do not cheat because you will never forgive yourself . If you really love your boyfrien and he treats you right stay with him. Say that you really do love your boyfriend . It is normal to have an attraction to someone else but it is not love it is only lust. no cheating.

  • 1 decade ago

    Are you going tomarry him?! No. Feel like cheating? Cheat! Happens to the best of us... :-)

    because of all this fake loyalty bs there are not enough hot girls to go around and this is wrong...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I have a gut feeling somethings already happened....why not the raging wild sex with your man!!!.....jeeeezzzeee

  • 1 decade ago

    His friend does not like you. Your boyfriend's friend is flirting with you to find out if if his buddy is dating a skank. By your said reaction to his 'test' flirting, he can honestly say to him, She will cheat on you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go back to highschool...because your acting like a kid. If your boyfriend's friend dosn't respect him, the friend won't respect you. Go take a cold shower!

    Source(s): My 41 years of life experience.
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