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Has anybody had this happen to them?

I keep getting people that I know lieing to women telling them that I'm going to date them. These are women that I don't even know and they don't live any where near me. The last one I told my friend that I wont date her and he went ahead and lied to her, and now in one day she called me 8 times and text about seven times, the last one said "PLEASE CALL ME." He said he thinks he is doing me a favor. The earlier times that people tried to get me dates I actually had to call the police because they theatened me and my family for not dating them. Can somebody thell me why people do this?

Update:

I know the story sounds crazy, believe me I know, but it is true. These people that are lieing to the women think that I'm going marry them and start having kids with them. That's why they keep telling me they think there doing me a favor.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    First of all, are you that good looking that you have people threatening you and your family if you don't date them?? i highly doubt it, furthermore you need to get rid of your immature, just plain stupid friend. Are you guys aware that you are not in the 3rd grade. Is all this stupidity still as funny now as it was in elementary school? Really? You defiantly need to get a hold of your social life, because if you truly are getting threatened and the like then you could find yourself in a dangerous situation that your big mouth, ridiculous, and immature friend got you into. I mean this story is almost to stupid to believe that grown men would be so ignorant and degrading to women. Some woman might get very angry one of these times for getting stood up.

    Good Luck to you though!

  • kathyw
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Your friends are trying to play at matchmaking. The surest way to put a stop to it is just to be in a relationship now. If you are always at loose ends, always fretting about not having met anyone and it seems obvious that you are going nowhere with your dating choices, they are trying to be helpful. Or it could be they are simply playing pranks.

    I'm guessing they are trying to be helpful and they know that you are single and the other person is single and they'd like you to get together. It's not good that the other person is not a local person, but hey, there might be few people available to make matches with!

    Some of the people they match you up with might have high expectations. I don't know how you are handling yourself in these situations so I don't know if you are sending mixed signals or not.

    As I said, your friends probably wouldn't do this if you were in a relationship or had a busy dating life, dating local women. So get busy. You can tell them to stop matchmaking but they are doing it with the best intentions.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    James it sounds like these friends of yours aren't really friends at all if they do this to you. No real friend would play games like that. What you need to do is have nothing to do with this person if they are causing all this grief in your life.

    Another thing you need to do is set the record straight with these women and tell them even if they don't believe you.

    The last thing is change your phone number for good and don't have any contact with this person again.

    You have to draw the line some where with this person by showing them that their behavior is not something you will put up with.

    I have had weird things happen and yes but I don't put up with people play games like that. Young people behave like this sometimes but you would think that even adults wouldn't behave like that and yet some do.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Do you hear voices? Do you see other things that people don't see? Are you right now talking to yourself? Do you feel like harming youirself, or other people? Listen, you ham and egger, the reason is this, your nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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