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johndoe asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

help please?

ok my gf has been hold out om me for about 4 months a little less but sheheld out because shes a virgin but yesterday was my 20th bday and we got drunk so it happened but when we started she told me to pull out because it hurt to much now how do i make it not hurt because she is killing me with the no sex

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Go slow..be gentle..use lubrication maybe..foreplay. Don't forget that it was her first time, and for some women it does hurt but that feeling will eventually go away. Be patient..4 months of holding out isn't that long!

  • 1 decade ago

    Slow down the first time should not have been when you where both DRUNK!!!!! What were the both of you thinking. Forplay is the key to help ease the pain but it will hurt the first time no matter what. As for the no sex is killing you!!! GROWN UP!!!!! You will not die from it! If the strain is that bad you have a hand use it!

  • 1 decade ago

    Go very slow and use lots of lube. My first gf was a virgin and she almost couldn't take it, but eventually it stopped hurting. Just tell her it only gets more enjoyable. Plus, if she was drunk she probably wasn't producing her own lube so it would definitely hurt. You want to get her excited enough to where she gets wet. Try going down on her first.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It hurts the few times. You have to be gentle and go slow. Perhaps try a position where she is on top since she has more control. You cna't pressure it into either. It sounds like she may not be ready. Have a serious discussion with her and see what she wants.

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  • 1 decade ago

    FOREPLAY!! first, you need to start kissing her slowly, then start playing with her, kiss her by the ears, neck and go down a little. Do it for some time, until you see that she is finally reeeady; then when you think she is ready... keep doing what you are doing and start playing with your fingers.... and then she should be ready. When she is finally ready, then be gentle to her, do it slowly and on her pace... good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    may is was because the skin of the penis was pulling back alot more than normal. If you stil having these problem go with your family doctor, that why they callv family doctor for any problem isv you our any particular problem

  • 1 decade ago

    it hurts for like the first few times, LIKE HELL! so give her time. and trust me the pain she gets is nothing like what you are feeling. and next time be slow about it

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You are one selfish SOB. AWWWW IT'S KILLING YOU because she won't give up the cooz! WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

    Only think about yourself? Grow up!

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