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www asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

can u plz tell me ur opinion!! i really dont know what to do??i fell very weak?

i used to love a person but it's over now and after we were calling eachother several times in the day he askes about me with a message every week now..he wants to be still in contact with me but it really hurts me i cant stand to be our relation in messages and i know that he is enjoying his life as if nothing happened to him as if he lost nothing he goes to parties and go out with friends and he remembers me with only a message after that if he really miss me as he said why didnt he call..i was trying to get over him but when i recieved his message yesterday i felt weak again i cant deny i felt comfortable coz he still remembers me but this way doesnt satisfy me at all...can u plz tell me should i reply his message and keep in touch as he wants from time to time(which doesnt satisfy me & hurts me to be treated as a normal person) or shall i dont answer and try to be completly awy from him(which is really hard too)i'm sorry but i reallyy dont know what to do & i miss like hell?????

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  • cb_music13
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I've been there...and I've actually done both options. The first 3, 4, and 5 times I kept in touch...but then things kept happening and we kept sort of hooking up, and then breaking up. After so much wasted time, energy and emotion, I realized that I needed to completly break it off. And that's what I did. It was REALLY hard at first, but it gets easier, and soon you'll find yourself out with friends/family and enjoying your freedom!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    For the sake of your sanity you should take a break from talking all together, maybe not forever but for a while until you can get over him enough to where its not hurting you because your not doing yourself any favors nor will you ever get over this weak feeling if you continue. If he truely cares about you, than he will respect that. You will never be able to get over the relationship if there is a constant reminder. I am in the same situation you are, so i know how it feels. I talk to him but i make the conversations short. If you feel that you cant just completely cut off communication with him then limit it.

    Time will be slow at first, but it will be your bestfriend in the end. Remember, like you said he is out there living his life, and you should too! you wont get to that point until you are over the relationship.

    Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stop answering his messages if he truely care about U he will find another way to get U.Maybe calling U. Good Luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He wants to keep u in his life and still be friends, whats wrong with that? it just means he is strong enough to move on and still be cool about it. Just get over it and either ignore him completely if u really can't stand seeing him just as friend and not ur boyfriend. But i suggest just be cool about it and keep him as ur friend still... having one more friend is always good

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  • fire_inur_eyes
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    OH my GOD what a stupid drama---stand up-- go get him to listen to you and tell him that it is over--move on ---no talking--grow up---no messages---and stop watching you. God what kind of loser is this guy?? You need to just tell him to get lost. And you better stop the baby games---ooo I miss him--get a life and snap out of it. How old are you??

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    5 years ago

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  • Madison
    1 decade ago

    you should be happy for your desision. just tell him straight up to get on with his own life cuz u have a life. tell him how you feel wether you want to see her or forget him...

    my opinion:

    4get him.move on.start a free breathing life again. no more holding on. whats done had to be done.

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