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15w n 1d pregnant. went to doctor appointment today .. I think i am worry too much?
My doctor would not let me ultrasound at her office she has one of the small ultrasound machine.. she said that i do not need ultrasound everytime i go there.. but she use doopler to check for the baby heart beat and say it was growing and the heart beat was about 130...
I just wanted to see if my baby have grow bigger in me.. she said my Uterus was growing and she see has grow bigger... am i just worry too much.. because i had miscarriage around this time last year.... She said i have very less chase of miscarriage for this one.. but i am still worry... ( I think me being worry too much my body is going to start eat me up).. she said i have lost 4 pounds.. and i do go gym regular(try at less) but it seem like i lost 2 1/2 pound... because last time i went i didn't take off my shoes..(saw mid-wife nurse took my weight) and this time i took off my shoes and i knew i have lost weight...but they did make ultrasound appointment for my 18 weeks the day before i see my mid-wife
I think i am just get worry about this one... Everyone seem to be worry for me.. because my parents keep tell me to be careful and they would let me go out of state.. for week...
and Sometime i if have werid dreams about stuff...
My doctor said everything is fine and that i am doing fine... Everything is fine..
am i just trying to drive myself crazy or just that i am worry.. but i know i am not stress... but i am worry.. about things is going to change.. and other stuff going on around my life...
8 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
trust me i worried all the time.it is normal after a loss.most dr. only do 2 sonograms the whole time.enjoy what is going on and try to focus on this lil guy. what you are doing is still focusing on the loss but you dont realize it.we all get scared.
- 1 decade ago
Everyone worries!
I'm 14 wks & 5 days with twins...I had an ultrasound at 11 weeks and I don't get another one until June. I sit or laydown wondering when I was gonna feel a boxing match, but all I can do is thank the god lord above I don't have pain or anything that would suggest a miscarriage.
I will have an ultrasound every 6 wks, then 2 wks and then once a week until the delivery date (October 25 full-term)
Just relax and think good thoughts but if u feel u need to have another opinion then u have the right to ask for another opinion!
Good luck
- Jennifer MLv 41 decade ago
I know this is easier for me to say than for you to do, but I have one word for you: RELAX. Really.
My daughter is 14 weeks pregnant and she worries too--it's totally natural. I worried with all three of my pregnancies too! I think it'd be a little unusual if you didn't worry some, but please try to not let it consume your thoughts.
Some key points to remember:
* your doctor has said your baby is growing and healthy...trust in her word; she has your best interests at heart.
* you are well past the "danger zone" of miscarriage, which is typically about 12 weeks and/or once a fetal heartbeat has been detected; after those critical times, your chances of miscarriage drop dramatically.
* no matter how much you worry, it won't change the outcome of the pregnancy (other than drive yourself crazy w/worry!) If your baby is healthy and growing--which your doctor says he/she is-- there isn't a thing in the world you can do to stop the little guy (or girl) from doing well--and even if it wasn't healthy, there isn't anything you could do to prevent that either.
But it sounds like things are perfectly fine in this pregnancy, and I do know it's perfectly normal to worry, especially since you've miscarried before. I miscarried many years ago and I was sooooo scared until I passed that critical timeframe and finally heard the baby's heartbeat, and you know what? Everything turned out great, and I'm sure that you, too, will be blessed with a healthy, wonderful baby.
Congratulations and best of luck to you!!!! :) Before you know it, you'll be holding that precious child in your arms and everything will be just fine.
- 1 decade ago
you don't get an ultrasound everytime you go in. Some insurance companies only allow one ultrasound the whole pregnancy some allow 3 or 4. If you have medical issues that can effect you are the baby then they will do them alot more frequent. And if you have made it this far the chance of miscarriage is low.
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- CeeCee19Lv 41 decade ago
Try not to stress yourself out too much or you will get sick. Thats what I have to keep telling myself too. If your midwife says that everything is going well then take their word for it. I would ask your midwife what you can do to put some weight back on but it seems like they aren't too concern about it so thats a good sign. You only have 3 more weeks to go to see your baby on the screen so just try to relax. I can see why that might be hard because of your previous pregnancy but try with all you might ok :) Good luck to you.
- 1 decade ago
I think its perfectly naturally for 1st time moms to worry about everything. I did and my friends did too. Try to eat more fruits and veggies and lots of protein. That will help your baby to grow healthy while inside of you. Don't over do it at the gym even though exercise is very good for you. If your doc has prescribed vitamins be sure to take them as well. IF not ask about it.
Try not to worry. I know its hard. But stress isn't good for you or your baby.
Good luck! I'll keep you in my prayers.
- 1 decade ago
yea you are worrying too much. i had a miscarriage march of last year. i am currently almost 32 weeks pregnant. after 12 weeks the chance of miscarriage decreases. my dr has done extra ultrasounds on me just to check on things but cant expect every time i go in to get one. so i would just sit back and relax. good luck.
- MarshaLv 61 decade ago
unnecessary stress(worry) is indeed not good nor needed
am sorry to hear of your loss before but that does not mean that is the route of this pregnancy also
also keep in mind that insurances will not pay for mulitples of those tests unless medically required
concentrate on the excitement and blessing to come - congrats