Can too much masturbation make it more difficult to stay hard during sex?

Don't lie...if you are masterbating too much then we all know you aren't getting any...

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To answer the main question, yes it is normal. Every man is different but ALL men deal with this problem on some level. I've noticed women really don't understand erections much at all. They seem to think we magically get one and maintain one, that us being nervous, anxious, worried, stressed etc should never effect our performance and that is just plain unrealistic. You have to be sensitive to the fact that even when we are really turned on, sometimes our body doesn't perform well because of different pressures. He could have lost his a couple times and now he's always worried he's going to lose it and that anxiety alone can be great enough to cause a problem. I think the best thing you can do is be supportive. I understand why you are worried, and is it possible that he really doesn't want to have sex or isn't as into it as he says? Yes that can be true. Since you aren't enjoying yourself... he may not be either. I don't want to fuel the fire here but if you have only had 5 orgasms... that is a serious problem. You CAN orgasm, there is just something occurring where you aren't. Either that's because YOU don't know your body well enough to teach him what to do, or he just doesn't know what he is doing. It sounds like there is very little communication between the two of you. I mean you are married for crying out loud. Have you sat down and talked about what you need to do to make your sex life better? Have you shared with him that you are not happy with your sex life? If not it's time for that conversation. It's well over due. I bet he isn't happy with the sex either and that's a big reason why his problem is occurring. But none of you are dealing with the problem, you are just ignoring it. That's not what a married couple should do. Because then it leads to resentment and can end up ruining the marriage. The best sex of my life has been with my husband. Neither one of us has a problem with erections on a regular basis. The occasional too much to drink, stress, lack of sleep etc does occur. I also want to say this, because you say you masturbate without him knowing. Faking an orgasm is one of the biggest betrayals. Don't do that to the man who you are supposed to love. Lying isn't acceptable with anything. That would crush his soul. I recommend you and your husband go to therapy. My husband and I have been doing couples therapy for 4 years out of the 6 we have been together. We continue to go even though we have the BEST marriage in the world. The reason we have the best marriage is because of therapy so we continue to go in order to avoid problems. We have learned a lot about communication and how to deal with issues together. As well as how to avoid issue and identify and issue while it's small and manageable. It was invaluable. I highly recommend it. We went as a couple to therapy once every other week, the other week we each went in for our own session with the therapist on our own. So we got individual coaching as well as couple coaching. I say this because I know if you ignore this problem... it will be the end of your marriage. Maybe not today but eventually. A marriage cannot survive bad sex. Intimacy is so important. -Connor

NO! There is nothing wrong with masturbation! There are no ill effects. It is not against the law. It is not immoral. It is a perfectly normal healthy thing done by 98% of men (the other two percent are liars.) I masturbate once or twice a day. Usually it consists of manual stimulation of my penis. Fingers around the guy and a regular back and forth (if standing) or up and down motion (if lying down). I don't normally require any visual assistance but certainly visuals will generate the desire to masturbate.

You can be assured that:

- you won't develop pimples, acne or zits;

- your penis will not get shorter;

- you will not be less intelligent;

- you will not grow hair on your palms;

- you will not lose hair or go bald;

- you will not go to hell (at least because of masturbating);

- you will not lose your mind;

- you will not become sterile;

- your penis will not fall off;

- your testicles will not decrease in size;

- your chance of being struck by lightning is not increase.

But you will be:

- your penis will likely become stronger;

- more relaxed;

- smiling most of the time;

- a perfectly normal man;

- and you will still produce enough eggs in your sperm.

So keep IT up and continue to enjoy. !

No, but if you do that before making whoopy, it will take longer for you to reach a climax. Too much masturbation will also lower your sperm count, making it harder to get your partner pregnant. If you have a problem with maintaining an erection, you should speak to your doctor. That's easily treated. The problem is it's embarrasing to discuss.

what a question.... i would think yes. i think you would orgasm to fast. so that would leave your partner very unhappy. but then it might make you orgasm befor even entering into sex just at the foreplay. that's a shame. after orgasming the first time it would stay hard longer. i think maybe need to give your wrist a break and learn how to strengthen your penis.

YES BUT NOT IN BODY BUT IN MIND. IF YOU HAVE SEX OPPORTUNITY, WHY DO YOU ENGAGE YOURSELF IN THE ACTIVITIES WHICH WOULD CAUSE A FEELING OF GUILT IN SUBCONSCIOUS MIND. THIS GUILT ONLY IS RESPONSIBLE FOR LOSS OF HARDNESS DURING ACTUAL ACT. REMEMBER THAT BODY IS SLAVE AND THE MIND IS MASTER.

PLEASE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING ALTHOUGH PHYSICALLY IT RARELY WILL RUIN YOU BUT MENTALLY YOU WOULD SOON BECOME A WRECK

Not really, depending on how strong you have your erection muscle. You should learn some exercises on how to strengthen it

I guess you can overdo it - about once a day shouldn't hurt.

Yes

It also causes you to ejaculate to fast