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Tainted love?

I have a dilemma. I have 2 sisters in-law who had babies within weeks of each other. To make a long story short one of them was having a long affair of 3 years with another man. Then her husband retaliated by having a fling with another woman. Lots of fluids being exchanged, etc. Anyway, slutty SIL wanted to breast feed her sister's baby one day but the sister didn't want her to because she had been sleeping around. But she ended up letting her do it because she didn't know how to tell her no. She is afraid of AIDS and hepatitis being possibly passed to her baby through breast milk. She asked me how to tell her sister the truth. Gimme some advice people!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    She needs to grow a spine. That's her kid if she doesn't want another woman to breastfeed her child then it doesn't happen. I would much rather hurt her feelings or anything else that needs to be hurt in order to make sure my child was safe. Just be straight up!

  • Lisa D
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    A few viruses can pass through breast milk. HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, is one of them. Women who are HIV positive should not breastfeed. Also, women with Hepatitis C may be able to transmit the virus through breast milk, but it is not certain. However, bleeding or cracked nipples on the breast of a woman with Hepatitis C puts a breastfeeding infant at higher risk for getting the virus

  • 1 decade ago

    I hope for the babies sake that she doesn't have anything because it could be to late. She needs to tell her that she doesn't want her or ANYONE ELSE to breast feed her baby.And for her to stop bugging her. If she won't stop, then tell her you didn't want to hurt her feelings but since she and her husband mess around your afraid they could have some kind of disease. If she gets her feelings hurt, TOUGH!! She'll get over it. Surely she should understand. The baby should be her main concern. I wouldn't have even let her feed my baby once.

  • 1 decade ago

    she knows that her siser is doing all these bad things and still insist on leting her do it.dam how the sister feels with the answer of no she would just have to be upset.if she cared so much about her kid she would have never let her do it,she ain't the mother of that baby thats a mommy job and no one elses.tell her to go get her baby checked.You tell her not to do that again thats just disgusting of her to even let her baby suck someone elses breast.she needs a beatdown.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her to take care of her own baby and let the other woman take care of her own baby. And then stay out of it....it sounds like something you don't need to be in the middle of. Hope everything turns out okay for all of you...especially the babies.

  • LDJ
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    When it comes to you own child you do what ever it takes to keep the child safe. If you don't want someone to breast feed your child you say no.

  • 1 decade ago

    you dont let other people breast feed your baby...........period

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think its ionly blood or semen

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