Fake marriage and fake friend?

I suspect you are having regrets as to having ended the friendship...otherwise you would not be looking here for approval. Personally, I do not understand why you have made this your business in the first place. Believe it or not, just because they are "married" does not guarantee him a green card or anything else...vigorous testing of the relationship is done by the INS..they know what ot look for in "special marriages for immigration purposes." And, even then, this really does NOT concern you in any way.

You do not have to waste time, stay up all night, etc. for her, but...surely there is a middle road here. Dropping her entirely seems out of place ... she has done nothing to you. Good luck

No, as painful as I am sure it was. You are responsible for yourself and your family before worrying about your friend. If you keep feeling drained due to your interaction with her, then you will be cheating yourself and your family, and that is where your first loyalty and set of responsibilities lie.

I would write her a letter - a caring one - telling her that you care for her, value your friendship, have enjoyed as your friend for many years, but you feel that the various circumstances that she is involved in have become too draining to you, and you feel that you need to stay away from her for a time to recharge and take care of yourself and your family. (Sorry for the run on!) That way, there is room for reconciliation should either of you want it.

I doubt that she will take any such letter well, but if you are nice, and remember that she has been your friend for many years, then that is the best that you can do. As well, it will allow for you to feel that you ended things the right way, and then are able to focus on you and yours. Good luck.

No, as painful as i'm specific it advance into. you're in charge for your self and your loved ones in the past stressful approximately your buddy. in case you save feeling drained due on your interplay together with her, then you definitely would be cheating your self and your loved ones, and that's the place your first loyalty and set of household initiatives lie. i could write her a letter - a being concerned one - telling her which you look after her, fee your friendship, have enjoyed as your buddy for some years, yet you experience that the different circumstances that she is in touch in have become too draining to you, and you experience which you would be able to desire to stay faraway from her for a time to recharge and look after your self and your loved ones. (Sorry for the run on!) That way, there is room for reconciliation ought to the two of you choose it. I doubt that she would be waiting to take the type of letter nicely, yet once you're superb, and remember that she has been your buddy for some years, then this is the proper which you're able to do. besides, it is going to enable so you might experience which you ended issues the appropriate way, and then are able to concentration on you and yours. sturdy success.

You feel the way you feel....just try to be in her corner with out being judgmental of her choices. That's being a good friend being there when you rather not because of the circumstances.

YOUR FRIEND IS A DUMBA S S IF SHE THINKS HE WILL STAY WITH HER! HE WILL BE WITH HER JUST LONG ANUFF TO EMPTY HER BANK ACCOUNT AND HE AND THE GREEN CARD WILL BE GONE AND WHEN SHE COMES CRAWLING BACK TO YOU KICK AS HARD AS YOU CAN!!!!!!AND MAYBE SHE WILL WAKE UP

What she is saying may be true I would watch and see for yourself if it's true. Tell her how you feel.