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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Men are confusing... tell me what you think..?

What does it mean if you are out to dinner with your bf (been together almost two years) and he says that he doesn't want to go through everything we have with someone else and then starts asking about what our future looks like. Is that him telling me he is ready to get serious? OR that he is afraid of our future....but doesn't want to do it over...so he is settling.... What do I do with this?

Update:

Hole ****... The question... I don't know about all that!

Update 2:

Holy ****... The question... I don't know about all that!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    if i, i would have kissed my gf and pop the question..nah maybe he is young arr...he is trying to be asure of himself..and be asure of you that ur line is totattl eclear wiht no other man...he is getting ready alright, just wait...

    coming soon....

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't over analyze this. Men are basic...just ask him what he's saying. He'll tell you. Women always over analyze things to the point of ruining it. He's probably wanting to get serious and in his way (rationalizing) telling you the same thing.

    Remember the three "B" with men:

    1. Be blunt...that's how guys like it

    2. Be black and white....no hiddeen agenda here

    3. Be beautiful...this makes everything work out

    CHeck out the following website..it's for guys but can give you good insight.

    http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/

  • 1 decade ago

    That's you reading way too much into a statement that your boyfriend has made. He's trying to compliment you for being with him through difficult times, and he couldn't picture going through it with someone else.

    Men are confusing? What he said is pretty straight forward. The eleven million tangents you're going with this makes you the confusing one, my dear.

  • 1 decade ago

    Stop being so analytical. Just go with the flow and enjoy what you have right now. Or you can always ask him all those questions and watch as he runs for the door!

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  • 1 decade ago

    it sounds to me that you have been through alot of things and learned from them. looks like hes taking a step towards the more serious route, at least mentally

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He is getting ready to pop the question and he has his "feelers" out there to see it you might be saying yes so he wont look stupid because he wants to surprise you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You talk to him about it. I'm not sure what he meant by it. It sounds like he is ready for something serious. You really need to talk to him about it.

  • morris
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Some men have a hard time being mushy and romantic. I think he's telling you that you are the one he wants forever. good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like he is thinking out loud and hasn't thought it through yet.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe you will get the answer by asking him! You have been together for four years, don't you trust his answer, to be honest?

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