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Ladies - What If He Refuses To Go To The "Friend Zone"?

We've all been in this situation. Someone we thought was "just a friend" suddenly steps up to the plate and says they have romantic feelings for you. You tell them, sorry but you just want to "stay friends." Us guys? We all know this is BS. Some guys, the weaker ones, will just accept your words and go hide ina closet somewhere hoping eventually you'll notice how "nice" they are. But some guys will stand up to you and say, "no, I'm better than that."

The guy shouldn't give you an ultimatum, but really, you do have to make a choice. Will you actually allow this guy in for consideration or will you have to cut him out of your life?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I felt like that about my best friend at times, it doesn't mean he's an *** or anything it just means he doesn't think that he can be around you as a friend. I mean if he can't look at you and not want to kiss, you or hold your had ya'll will just end up less than friends anyway, and it won't be pleasant.

    Just tell him, you don't like him like that and that you wanna' just be friends, and that you really want to keep him as a friend and if he doesn't think he can be friends with you, that you understand....

  • 1 decade ago

    Sometimes girls really do want to be just friends, and if all they want you for is a girlfriend, then thats ****!

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