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should i stay married or get divorced?

it's been 13 years and well, i wonder if i can go another 13 years. should i get out now while i'm still hot?

Update:

oh and by the way, i've never cheated in case you're wondering.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    No, you should secretly save up money for the NEXT 13 years....then leave.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Obviously, if you are asking the question then pretty much you know what you need to do. This exactly why I said that marriage is a joke. there are very few people now that will stay married no matter what. most people are selfish and as soon as they feel neglected they seek the way out instead of trying to find a solution. what are exactly the reasons for you to consider a divorce? which brings me to another point, wedding vows are a joke and nobody respect them and they should either get rid of them or change them to something more realistic. plus marriage licenses should be renew every 2 years in case you don't want to stay together the marriage is nullify and there are no penalties for either party.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Since the only information you give is that you've been married for 13 years there is really no way to form any sort of opinion. If you don't WANT to be married then I'd say the best thing would be to get UNmarried.

  • 1 decade ago

    depends upon what you think of a marriage. i said "til death do us part" and fully committed (good/bad times and all that stuff) and i meant it. it has not always be great, sometimes very hard, but as a family we are committed. if you take vows lightly then sure, go ahead and get the divorce. but next time only vow to stay together until you decide to split up. that way you won't be breaking a vow.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Do you think that your partner could make you happy for the next 13 years? If not then move on so you can be happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    You answered your own question. You think your hot and you are too good for your spouse. Leave and let him find a good wife that is faithful and one that is not so hot to be able to be faithful to her husband.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Are you saying your hot and he's not. If you don't feel that way with him than move on. We reap what we sow. You need to remember this.

  • 1 decade ago

    first you should tell whats the problem with your married life

    answer can be good if i get the details

  • 1 decade ago

    Get out!!

  • 1 decade ago

    People don't change get out!!!

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