Are 3somes wrong if you both truly agree to the expereience?

I tend to shy from words like "right" and "wrong" except for a few absolutes like

"wrong to kill a child" and even then..... lol

Just remember that you still need to be a couple the next day, so talk things through. Will your husband be weird if Ken has a really big one, and you enjoy it? Will you be weird if Barbie can get your husband going 3 times in an hour?

I suggest a book "Beyond the Marriage Fantasy" by Dan Beaver. (yes that is his real name! lol) He was one of my undergrad instructors. Great book for straights.

First off, 3-somes to me is not a "truly committed relationship." A truly committed relationship is not having any other sexual relations with anyone, BUT each other. I personally don't agree with 3-ways. I have never done one, and don't ever want to! Some people go into these 3-ways and then the other person (or both) will be hurt. Once you do it once, it may lead into doing it more often. Also, it could cause one (or both) people to seek out partners outside of the relationship and lead to cheating. If I were you guys. I would find another way to put a little spice into the sex life. Plus, what happens if a condom breaks during the 3-way and the person your having the 3-way with infects a healthy couple with a disease? If you decide to go through with it, DO be careful and think about it!

Yes, No, and Yes, No.

In some states it is not even legal.

As a married couple what you do in your bedroom is your business

In some states it is only legal for ONE of you to participate

and finally, my answer. No. There is nothing wrong with "truly agreeing to the experience"

Dont be swayed by anyone but you and your husband.

My wife and I had a threesome with the best man from our wedding. She loved having two guys pleasure her. We didnt do anything to eachoter but kept doing things to her. When we were playing cards with a life long friend of hers the loser had to answer a question. I asked her.. What is worse, cheatting on your bf/husband or inviting a third person to join. She immediatly said having two guys would be so slutty. Then changed her mind when I pointed out that she has cheatted on her bf several times and is no engaged to him and I think he would rather be part of the action than seperate from it. She has since talked openly to her now husband about it.

It's all completely up to you. If you both think it'd be okay, then it is. It isn't for anyone else to decide what's best for you. Just stay faithful and true during you "sexploration" and all should be well.

Good luck, have fun!

If it is truly what you both want...then do it..Life is just too short to have regrets about things you wish you'd done.

threesomes can be a good experience, but if you decide to bring someone else into your marrieage bed, it has to be someone both of you know and trust, because it could be awkward afterward with someone you know not so well.

Being homosexual is wrong but many people are anyway. You can't choose your sexuality, but you can choose who you have sex with.