I think it is rude ??

i have to agree i like to add pepper to most of my food.

is it that they have a salt and pepper mills and dont want to give it to you or dont they have any..

i think that you should buy them some salt and pepper mills elegant ones that they can leave on the table.

It may be rude, however, it is rude to point out the rudeness of others.

Simple solution, next time bring a few salt and pepper packets with you, maybe this will send a message to your in-laws.

 

I don't think that it's rude not to offer salt and pepper. Probably they don't use it themselves so they don't think about it and they don't realize that you want it. It would be alot simpler if you would just ask for it. How else would they know that you want it if you don't say a thing?

Don't sweat it. Just carry your own S&P with you. Salt and pepper live on my table, perhaps your inlaws don't put it on their table because of their health problems.

I think that if you ASK specifally for it, they should let you use it, but there is NO rules for leaving it out on the table. I NEVER leave S & P out on the table, ever. We do not use it, but we keep it around for those who want to.

i also think its rude....i was like hmmm i wonder if anyone else thinks this...and there is !!!!