Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Why is it so hard to find a decent man to date?

I am 42 with 3 kids. I am responsible and respect others. I am easy on the eyes and pretty smart. so what gives?

Update:

my kids are old enough now where I dont have to keep an eye on them every second. My oldest moved out and now I have me 11 and 13 year old who can stay home and have neighbors keep an eye out if I have to go out.

7 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Answer #1 Best prospects are busy, so if you want you can learn to share!

    Answer #2 If this work were easy, anyone can do it.

    Answer #3 I'm so far!

    Smile! Just be happy, don't worry. Things happen when it be. Somethimes its just a lucky cuestion. Isn't your fault.

    Kisses for you pretty (& responsible) mom!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm not trying to be a jerk but first thought is... the whole kids things. Three kids is a lot to deal with, most guys might not want to deal with, for lack of a better way of saying it, your kids. Others might think with three kids you won't have anytime for them. Or maybe your standards are too high...

  • 1 decade ago

    It's probably because you have 3 kids. That tends to make a lot of men run.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    here is my opinion women look in the wrong places. they like the wrong guys. why would a woman who has been cheated on by her husband multiple times want to stay with him because women dont want decent guys they want the jerks

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • 1 decade ago

    I read if you can't catch a fish in the pond move to another one. its probably the geographic get out of your area..or box.... if you don't you won't find a decent man. and by the way they are almost extent in certain areas....

  • 1 decade ago

    Decent men are hard to find because they don't exist. They may be ok but they always find a way to piss us off.

  • 6 years ago

    because you have not found me

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.