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Match.com question (guys and girls please answer!)?

Before we started really getting interested in each other, this guy I'm seeing mentioned that he had an ad on match.com, which I was fine with. Now it's been 6 months and things are getting more serious between us, and he's still active on match.com. I'd really like to know why he's keeping active if he's seeing me. I'm planning to ask him, but I need some suggestions on how to bring it up without attacking him. Any advice would be appreciated!

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  • judie
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    l feel your concern on this, l would wonder the same..if things have started to get serious then l think you should ask him just straight on..but you must time so it comes out well and he has enough time to tell you why dont sound like you are nagging or want to stop him..mayb you can start by asking him where he thinks you are going with this..relationship and then mayb you can ask that later...

  • 1 decade ago

    I would make up a story about a friend who's trying to online dating, maybe she had a funny experience. Once the conversation veered in that direction, I'd ask if he was still on match.com. Act like you don't know he's still on there, just see what response he gives you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Probably not ruling out all options. I just went through the same thing from a guy on eharmony. Few months of chatting, meetings together, things started getting a little more serious and he was still chatting with others. Not a problem for me but I think it was to keep all doors open. May want to talk to him about it. Emotionally you are probably ahead of him in the relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    I can understand why your upset and to answer your question it might be because he just forgot about it but either way just tell him "It's been six months and things are getting more serious between you two and was wounding if he felt the same way. " If you get the right answer then tell him you would appreciate it if he took himself off match.com.

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  • Ade
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I would just drop it lightly, like while you're washing the dishes or doing something mundane, like "Hey is your profile still on Match.com?" Just be really light about it. See how he reacts. Just kid around with him, be like "why do you need that when you have all THIS" and like be sexy. Just keep it light.

  • 1 decade ago

    well, it is a bit dificult.One thing to tell u - it is some times hard to trust some one from the net(who knows he might be a girl)And, all i am advicing u to do is to get a new account with no pic and try to investigate him beofre u do any thing stupid like yelling at him saying like he is cheating on u or not.Good idea??Let me know if it doesnt work becosue i will advice u to do some thing strong this time.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe he is keeping his status as available if the relationship between the two of you doesn't work out...even though take things slowly....

  • 1 decade ago

    just bring it in on a convo. you dont need to attack him if you asking him like....o im already off that web-site, then you ask are you?....hope this helps!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just do it. It's just a question. And if he gets offended then he has something to hide.

  • 1 decade ago

    be cool, wrap his tool.

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