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OH MY .. What an interesting crush story?

Heres the story..

See this guy at my office he stares we make eye contact hte whole thing. Other day I thought he was going to wave at me cause he was staring. I premeditate it and raise my hand and wave before he does.....He was only scartching his head and was like staring at me while I was waving. Yeahhhh I look like an idiot.

I like this guy and NOW I dont' want to even look at ihm. Now I think he thinks that I am an idiot...

What do I do

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I wonder why he scratched his head...he sounds like an idiot! Haha.

    I hate office crushes. I am getting over a moron right now. Next time, let him take the initiative to greet you. If he does, give a little...if he gives back...give a little more...if he gives more, you get the point.

    Good luck & Cheers!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Guys like idiots. It makes them feel better.

    But seriously, that has happened to everybody. The good news is that now you have made the first move with out even knowing it. It realy is o.k. for a girl to approach a guy. You now have an opening line "you know the other day I saw you at the window (giggle) and I thought you were trying to get my attention. Well I waved and now I feel like an idiot" they both laugh, he asks her out and they ride off into the sunset.

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Nothing. Office romances never go well. Think about how you feel with the whole waving mishap.... Now, imagine how you would feel if you slept with him, and something horrible happened... Yikes! What if he is not well-endowed? What if you farted in bed? Would you really want to see him at the office every day? You would have to quit your job!

    Rule of thumb... Don't poop where you sleep (i.e. don't have sex with a neighbor) and don't poop on your desk either!

  • 1 decade ago

    Nothing. Just blow it off like you were waving "hi" and being friendly. That would have gone over the head of most guys, so don't fret too much about it.

    Keep flirting though - and I bet he WILL notice.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he doesnt think ur idiot just cuz u wave. how do u no that he didnt just think u just waved, not that u thought he waved at u.(sorry if thats confusing)

    i say just move on n act liek nun ever happened.

    Good Luck n Hope I Helped

    ``-Anna-``

  • 1 decade ago

    You are fretting over something that he probably didn't give a minutes thought to. It is no big deal. What may be a big deal is the "Office Romance" hazards you may be getting into. Give it lots of thought and research so you know what you are getting into.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't worry you're getting worked up about nothing. He probably just thought you were being friendly and saying 'hi'. Just shake it off. If you really like him work up the nerve to go and talk to him.

    Good luck!

  • All you did was wave at him, now he probably knows that you like him. Don't worry, it was probably a good thing.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your not an idiot. He prolly feels the same way. If you guys both like each other I would go for it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him you waved at him b/c he was looking at you. No big deal.

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