I need help?

Either talk to her and work it out or leave - that's pretty much it. My husband and I have a rule, you NEVER bring up the "D" word in a fight, it's too convienient and not a fair fight that way. People who constantly drag other people down usually are down on themselves and it sounds to me like she fits this mold perfectly. Whether you want to admit it or not you are being abused, even if it's just words. I hope you figure out what's best for you and your kids!

get her some professional help. She has real self esteem issues and just issues going on in her head.

pray for Zach I just e mailed him-you think you got problems!

well I am proud of you, your hangin in there. I suggest the book or tapes on Men are from Mars-women like to vent. as far as the negativity-I suggest you, ---i really dont know-yet she needs to understand in this book when it gets too emotional for you -you have a need to take a walk or whatever and that you will be back for her better than ever.

what has helped me cause my mom can be very negative -starting with a funeral for me when I came to believe in Jesus, yet I appologized for not being a good son growing up and we reconciled (through her divorce I tried to get her to take my dad back-even broke a picture window)

why not consider the dinosaurs in life and help from above=There is dinosaurs spoken of in the bible-yet to the one convinced why would you change your mind? remember if you reject Jesus or that the sun shines-then Jesus and the sun shine are a myth.

to Jesus footprints in the sand-what a poem--The bible speaks about dinasaurs before the flood in the book of Job Liviathan and other references. Isnt it interesting that the earth is claimed to have been created in ages with some of it so many million years old-some so many more or less-thus instead of a creator that created the earth with age it had a creator that created out of nothing (because its got age and didnt exist a day before it was created-some say from gas lol-how much gas would it take to make 100 miles of earth all at one exact time?

yet why did they find these dinasaurs on the earths surface. why didnt they have to dig down 100 thousand or a million when it is claimed they roamed the earth and up to a billion years into the earths crust to find these bones? they are preserved in tar pits of recent age-yet covered with great pressure to preserve them (the universal flood)

this helped me as raised a Jew to see the deaper truths too=Christian means a follower of the Messiah-who came as a Jew- the believer in Jesus-has power over the mind to control their thoughts, thus when Jesus says to forgive and let Me handle it, or about lust is adultry against God, or hate is murder in the heart, we have the calling to cast down all imaginations that exault themselves against God which brings true peace and joy to our heart in all situations (Philippians 4:4-20).

My Jewish people believe in the comming of a Messiah, and his fulfillment is in Jesus. The laws of Judaism were given specifically to the Jewish people to be kept and to guide them to the promised Messiah.

Isaiah 9:6 the child to be the Son given, the mighty God and the prince of peace..

Isaiah 52:13-53:12 To be the exalted one. To first be marred more than any man, and to lay down his life to make atonement for our sins.

The way I came to know him is by believing what he spoke to us from heaven (Revelation1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to repent of your sins (even one lie) quickly. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock If you hear my word and open the door, I will come in and be your friend."

so I prayed "Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."

Its all good and now as a Jew who has come to know Jesus is my Messiah, savior, and best friend giving me joy beyond words and power to live right.

praying for you and proud of you too, David

go to a marriage counsler ASAP

get off the computer, pack your bags and run.