wht's ur persnl opinion on pre-marital sex;the society considers it wrong;does tht mean foreplay's right..

foreplay normally leads to fornication especially if hormones are overflowing and the attraction is great. society always see what seems to be a deviation from the bible as wrong and in a way i agree to that one so that it will discourage promiscuity (from both males and females), unwanted pregnancy, teen parents, etc. but if both parties are adults who are mature enough to face the consequences of their actions should there be any, then i dont see anything wrong with it. assessment of compatibility is a necessity and that includes how the couple relates to each other sexually. in my opinion, this is important especially for those considering marriage. having said that, the getting to know process is a continuous thing even after the couple has walked the aisle, bore children, had their first fight, etc. but at least the couple entered the union better equipped as they did try to get to know almost all the aspects prior to marriage. some people may disagree with me stating one doesnt need to know the penile size or the amount of pubic hair before tying the knot. take note it is not just the genitals that control sex but rather how the couple relates to each other in bed. being comfortable is one thing. feeling good is another.

@ one heart one love: pre-marital sex is not prohibited in every religion. Pagans honour sexuality as healthy, natural expression of love between consenting parties, married or otherwise. Marriage is a sacrament of the Christian church that some religions don't even ascribe to. There can never be an answer to any question that begins "How do Christians see..." or "what do christians believe...." because there are so very many sects of Christianity, and then, of course, so many individuals whose actions may not reflect official church doctrine. Too bad you've had such a bad experience. My advice is to get the pre-marital sex question right out in the open and don't make any pre-judgments based on their religion. Good Luck!

The laws on pre-martial of various countries vary and have been historically been tied with religion and the legal and political traditions within the particular country. In some countries pre-marital sex becomes a normal behavior and has been for decades.

It is my opinion, however, that premarital sex has no moral grounds, it is against God, and it is unsafe physically and emotionally. Although sex is pleasurable, it is designed by God to be enjoyed by two married people.

I stayed a virgin till I was married, but the furthest I would go with my boyfriends in high school was half naked. They did know in advance that they weren't getting any from me. I actually get really pissed off when i see women wear white on their wedding day and they're not virgins. I think it's hypocritical. I'm not married anymore, but I was perfectly content at the time only to "know" one man the rest of my life. People actually thought I was weird because I didn't have premarital sex. I'm kinda' a gothic rocker chick, so this standard didn't "fit" their idea of me. I think it's important to wait at least until after high school before you have sex. Foreplay is still a form of sexual pleasure. Then again so is kissing. The longer a person waits the better.

your wrong society now considers it right, I'm just saying, 10 years ago when I was like 10 people didn't see this much on tv, you wouldn't see as much sex everywhere,

but to answer ur question foreplay is sexual, so its considered a part of sex, right or wrong u be the judge

my personal opinion is that it has to be right for that person. I would not have wanted to marry my husband without taking him for a test ride (though i did try him out for 7 years first). Maybe i am excessive, but I could've married him on his nick-names, they were all correct and I am happy. The guys I was with before him, some claimed they wanted marriage, but I would've slept with them anyway. Guess I am trying to say that in my opinion it would be awkward not to know the whole person before marriage. Who wants surprises on the wedding night?!

In the first place what doe's sex have to do with you wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.I hope it's always more than that. I myself want someone that connects with me and were just happy together.sex is natural don't let a church decide your happiness. Decide it for yourself.

I stayed virgin till my wedding night and this is what i recommend to everyone.BTW losing virginity isnt about actual sex , you can lose via foreplay too.

It's a lot more interesting than post-martial sex, that's for sure.

I dont see any problem with either.. just remember to protect yourself