I've had a cat for over 5 years she never, ever lets me hold her. Last night she kept putting her front paws

They make a laxitive for cats. I would get some from your vet or a vet supply store to keep on hand in case a situation like this arises again. It comes in a tube and is supposedly flavored like beef (I've never tasted it myself!).

In the mean time, I would take her to the vet and have her checked out to make sure all her systems are working ok. Cats can have very delicate urinary and digestive tracts.

We must realize that dogs growl for many reasons. Dogs can sense when something is wrong or if a person isn't what they appear to be so pay attention to when your dog growls. It doesn't matter if it's a family member, friend or someone you just met. Dogs that may growl at children could be the cause of a child tormenting the dog that you aren't aware of or at least neighborhood children that antagonized the dog to the point it doesn't like children. If this is the case then the dog should be put somewhere away from any children that may visit your home or muzzled until you get the dog trained. Also tying up your dog in the yard is a no-no. Dogs can be 'shamed' when they do something wrong (one should never hit a dog) and loved and praised when they do something right. Our dogs listen to commands well and also watch our hand signals. Believe it or not we use "grunts" if we are displeased with them or want them to do something such as coming back to us if they are chasing something. For instance, if they are growling we will get up and investigate as to why (usually it's the mailman, paper boy, etc.) but there were times when strangers came to our house that we had our doubts about. We simply say, "eh!" in a sharp tone or "huh" in a different tone. Then we pet the dog and tell them to lay down while we investigate the problem. There are times it's been dark in the backyard and I'll let my dogs investigate, but then give the command after a minute or two for them to come to my side. A well trained dog is a total pleasure to have around and others get to enjoy them as well.

She needs a vet right away. It sounds like a urinary tract blockage. The vet will be able to treat her and get her on medicine. Adding oil to her food won't really help. Cats can get crystals in their bladder that are very painful and cause bleeding and blockage. There might be a mobile veterinary in your area seeing as how you don't drive. Take a look in the phone book or call a vet and explain your situation. Good luck.

TAKE HER TO THE VET. Although I do understand that you couldn't then, it needs to be done ASAP. This can indicate a blockage, a stomach illness, or even cancer (not to scare you). Since she was so worried and actually came to you for help, then you should take her advice and get help!

Don't add oil. That could just make her sick. The vet can tell you what to do. In the case of my cat (who had trouble urinating), it meant a prescription diet (permanent) and antibiotics (temporary).

First, let me say what a smart animal you have. WOW.

This about broke my heart. I think you did the right thing. Try a little hairball remedy. But, keep looking for solids in her litter. If you see they look different, as much as you can tell in the litter box, then take her to the vet. She may have a blockage. I wish you both the best.

Aww what a sweet cat - she was begging you for help! If she was constipated - which can happen with hairballs - then either a hairball remedy or even Vaseline can help her. I would get her checked out with the vet to rule out anything else that may be going on.

FYI - not driving really isn't an excuse not to get to a vet. If your pet's in trouble next time just call a cab, hop a bus or find a neighbour that can take you. Your cat's life may depend on it.

This is why I always have a bottle of Rescue Remedy in the back of the medicine chest. That is always something you can put on your cat to help when they are in stress from a injury or illness. It is a great investment. As far as I know it can stay there for fifty years just in case you ever need it.

Your cat needs to get to an emergency vet as quickly as possible. Please call ANYONE who might help you get her there. Take a taxi if you must.

It sounds like she is blocked from urinating and that can be fatal in less than 24 hours.

Under the circumstances, I think you did the best you could do, at the time.

As soon as possible, though, you need to get someone to take you and the cat to the vet, so she can be looked at, just in case.

Get your kitty to the vet ASAP! If it's bleeding out of its rectum, then it is mega super serious. It could be cancer, worms, or something else that's serious. I hope you won't have to put the kitty down, but judging by what the problem is, it sounds threatening.

Sounds like she was constipated. But if she does it again and seems to get worse or not getting better I would call a vet.

I hope she feels better!