how do i stop thinking about intimacy with boyz instead of with girls?

Well, it's not easy and some people spend their entire life in denial, getting married to a woman they do not fancy sexually. (By the way it makes me laugh when i hear people say 'he can't be gay he's got 4 kids with his wife!'

So wait a few years, it's not like you have to write somewhere whether you are GAY or Straight. But the key is to be honnest with your own feeling. It doesn't mean you have to have gay sex right now to see if you are or not. And don't pretend to be in love with a girl if you are not. It will both hurt you and the girl as you will be unhappy.

What is normal.Everyone thinks they are normal.If you look at people who dont smoke think smoking is not normal and vice versa.People who bomb and maime think they are normal and the rest of the world is mad.There is nothing wrong with dreams if they don't hurt anyone else and I would say that 99% of people have had thoughts about intimacy with someone of the same sex at some time or another in their life.Get on with your life and don't worry.Lifes too short

What's normal? You can think about anything you want to think about- but you sound like you are young enough that if you don't physically get intimate with anybody until you are much older, it will all work itself out. You will find peace with whatever you decide, because it will be an adult decision. Just concentrate on your education and graduating for now, and when the time is right, you will come to a conclusion you are comfortable with.

If you really want to then get a girlfriend, and if you dont like it, accept the fact that you are gay, you are still normal! It is totally fine to be gay. And sure, you can try all you want to be "normal" but if you arent being yourself then you arent normal.

and everyone gets curios sometime in their lives ;]

Hey, just be you...if you are, no use pretending that you're not. Also, nothing on earth's normal, so if that's your thought, get over it. I'm not gay, but I've been put in positions where I thought a choice I made wasn't normal, but it was right for me-

Bums are for exit only. Know what i'm saying?

By the way, because you spelt it 'boyz', this means you are an uphill gardener already.

do u want to stop? if u completely want to just think of some better things about girls or what girls have and guys don't.

getting help from a psychiatrist and telling him/her how u feel for boys and girls

and if u r gay then u r gay u should be preoud and its very normal

Being normal is being yourself!! Dont let ANYONE tell you different. You need to make yourself happy,. dont go through life trying to change yourself.

well whats normal for one isnt for another.

If you want intimacy with a man then you may be gay.

dont knock it until you have tried it, you sound confused now, why not satisify your curiosity.