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can anyone help with socialization and?

I am socialy retarted...... and I am no kid, but.... I want to be more comfortable with .....hi how are you or ....oh i know you instead of being quiet and afraid to say much. I used to be very intoverted but..... am a little better. some one advised a life coach?..... where? and what?.... and most importantly how much? I never have enough conversation and I admire so much people who can talk and talk and talk really I do. how can I do that? Thanks evryone

Update:

pput in the sociology catagory as well.

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    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    I used to be a bit on the shy side myself. What helped me was just putting myself out there, introducing myself, asking questions, etc. I finally asked myself the question: What's the worst thing that can happen if I just go out there and do it?

    The answer: I got dissed by a few, but I made new friends and felt better about myself.

    Ultimately, you need to love and honor yourself more. (I would say that most of us do.) You have as much to say and have as much validity as the next person. People who talk all of the time are overrated, in my humble opinion.

    When you are beginning a conversation, again, ask questions. People absolutely love to talk about themselves. Let conversations evolve naturally. Sometimes, you start off on one subject, and you wind up on a different tangent.

    Not to be glib, but just get out there and do it. Hey, what's the worst that could happen?

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