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Men!!! Does weight/size really matter????

My husbands friends all sit on one side of the scale or the other. Some say a woman has to be a size10 or less to even be considered for dating/marriage and some say the dont care what size she is.

Does weight/size really matter to you????

Update:

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Size, no.

    Willingness to do ANYTHING,Yes.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't even know how big size 10 is. There are hot chicks of all sizes. What a lot of guys don't realize is that a good wife is more than just a good looking woman. They go through life alone, when there are good women all around them that they don't see, because they're looking for Barbie.

  • 1 decade ago

    Weight and size does not matter to me. What matters most to me is a connection. It only matters if you feel a connection between you and the other person. The only size that really matters is the size of their heart.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It depends..A size 10 with no chin? Nope. A size 12 that is voluptuous is much better. I think proportion is important too. I'm attracted to a curvy woman..but never a BBW. I think woman with big butts and guts are kinda gross to be honest... Sexual attraction may not be so important to some for a long term relationship..I think its a must. Call me shallow, but I would prefer not to go to bed with someone I wasn't sexually attracted to.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Of course it matters! Any person that tells you that it doesn't is walking around with blinders on and holding truth in the shadow of their sketchy thoughts. A woman's physical appearance catches your eye first. If that outward appearance does not fit your personal list of preferences, then she will not likely keep your attention beyond the bedroom. I think that a blanket statement like "10 or less is best" is unrealistic in American society today, but most guys don't want a woman who is much larger than himself. Personally, I prefer a woman who is muscular and curvey. Thin is nice to look at but she won't keep my attention if she doesn't have something more to offer than low body fat. If she's bigger than me, I probably won't even look twice.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes I think it does matter to them. I know a married guy who will always look at and try to cheat with skinny women, black or white. But if a fat one comes along, he doesn't even look that way.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes it does. A good body weight for the size of the body indicates one who is in good health.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm not shallow so no it doesn't but......If a woman is in shape it tells me that she takes good care of herself and feels that being healthy is important. I personally like hiking kayaking and surfing so being with a fit woman is a plus for me.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    not really what counes is the personality that counts and romance is even better size dont matter unless they are way to big dear

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  • Beau R
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    No. If you pay no attention to weight and size, you might just discover one very nice person.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes...The size of the heart that's what really matters....

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