Are men who pay for sex pathetic or what?

This is going to sound really weird,but I have been having on going probs with my wife.Everything is great except for sex.This has gone on for 15yrs ,I have been 100% faithfull and we have tried everything but it doesn't work.As a guy it is extremely frustrating and it is definitely affecting me.Lately I have come to realize that's the way its gonna be,the way I see it I have 4 choices 1)Put up with it and know I will never experience sexual happiness. 2) get a divorce(doesn't seem right,as we dont fight,love+respect each other,sex is the one and only prob) 3) have something on the side(my morals wont allow this and shows dis respect ) 4) hire an escort.Trust me I am confused,but #4 seems the least hurtfull,cause I am paying for a service to keep me sane and wont have the problem of falling in love like # 3.Like I said it sounds weird but maybe sometimes it is the lesser of 2 evils.

In the big picture, less all the moral implications, paying for sex is often a lot easier than the alternative.

Lets look at it this way,

4 dates with dinner and a show before you get some.

Additional phone calls, scheduling, dates, emotional baggage and constant negotiation.

Maintaining a relationship and all that entails.

Calling an escort and paying the money.

It may be the most efficient method.

no,,darling ,i don,t think so ,sometimes we need dirty stuff that our girlfriends or wives can,t do ,add to that the time that sometime men they don,t have it for that they go to pay money.