If you could change anything about your mate without them getting offended what would it be?

Without her getting offended? Not gonna happen.

But I'd make her have more confidence and realize she is beautiful. That, and I'd try to make her a little more faithful... but that's another story.

But I can't change her, and if I could then I probably wouldn't anyway.

Drop his negative attitude towards life.

For him to pick up after himself.

You cannot change people, they do it themselves. Grow up!

to stop nagging

eat more slowly and not so much

stop complaining