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Does he have a right to be angry? I need a neutral opinion?

My friend's birthday was this past weekend and my friend, along with two other people scheduled to have dinner this Thursday. Now, one of my friend's fiance's grandfather is having surgery on Thursday so he can't do dinner that day and the four of us agreed that we want to have dinner together and not miss someone. So we rescheduled for tomorrow.

I told my fiance about the reschedule and now he's upset with me because "I made plans and changed them last minute" and that "why can't I just have dinner on the day I originally had minus that one person. Why does plans have to change for that one person when it isn't even their birthday."

We had no plans tomorrow besides going to the gym but I can do that in the morning instead. Also, nothing had to be rescheduled for me to have dinner on Thursday or Tomorrow. Basically i had no other plans this week besides going home afterwork.

What do you think?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    if you don't do this all of the time, then he shouldn't be angry. it's a situation you couldn't control and you're not changing any plans with him, so I don't see the big deal.

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    1 decade ago

    It seems abit unreal he is upset over the change. it is not likie something could be done about it.

    Seems abit self centred to ask why could'nt the dinner be done without the other person?..That is not what friends do..maybe he doesn't get how "real" friends are.

    I wouold tell him to try to understand abit..and that your going..failiong that..tell him to grow up already..sometimes, things change!

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