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what things are imporant and what things just arent enough?

LEAVE Y0UR SHIRT F0R HER T0 SLEEP 0N- he did this

LEAVE HER CUTE TEXT MESSAGES.-he did this

KISS HER IN FR0NT 0F Y0UR FRIENDS.-he did this

TRUST HER 0VER EVERY0NE ELSE.-he did thiis but he doubted me the whole time

TELL HER SHE L00KS BEAUTIFUL.-he did this

L00K HER IN THE EYES WHEN Y0U TALK T0 HER.-he did this

LET HER MESS WITH Y0UR HAIR.-he did this

MESS WITH HER HAIR.-he did this

JUST WALK AR0UND WITH HER.-he did this

INCLUDE HER IN ALL THINGS Y0U D0.-he did this

F0RGIVE HER F0R HER MISTAKES.-he didnt do this, he held onto everything

L00K AT HER LIKE SHE'S THE 0NLY GIRL Y0U SEE.-he did this

TICKLE HER EVEN WHEN SHE SAYS ST0P.-he did this!!!!

H0LD HER HAND EVEN WHEN Y0U ARE AROUND Y0UR FRIENDS.-he did this

WHEN SHE STARTS SWEARING AT Y0U TELL HER Y0U L0VE HER.-he did this!

LET HER FALL ASLEEP IN Y0UR ARMS.-all the time! he did this

GET HER MAD, THEN KISS HER.-he did this ****!

TEASE HER & LET HER TEASE Y0U BACK.-we did this

STAY UP WITH HER ALL NIGHT WHEN SHES SICK.-he did this, he even took my colds somehow!

WATCH HER FAV0RITE M0VIE WITH HER-anytime I asked, he did this

KISS HER F0REHEAD.-always, he did this

GIVE HER THE W0RLD.he couldnt do that but he tried to do what he was able!

WRITE HER LETTERS.-he wrote me songs!

LET HER WEAR Y0UR CL0THES.I have some on now, he did this

WHEN SHES SAD, HANG 0UT WITH HER.-he didnt know hoow to react to me when I got depressed. I have Bipolar Disorder. He dint know how to handle me!

LET HER KN0W SHE'S IMP0RTANT.-he did tihs

LET HER TAKE ALL THE PH0T0S 0F Y0U SHE WANTS.- he did this

KISS HER IN THE RAIN.- made love in the rain too! we did this

CALL HER EVERY NIGHT.- we did this n slept on the phone!

AND WHEN Y0U FALL IN L0VE WITH HER, TELL HER.- he did that1

AND WHEN Y0U D0 TELL HER. L0VE HER LIKE Y0U NEVER L0VED BEF0RE.-he did that, what he could

So why is it that he wasnt enough for me. Why is that even though he did all of this it wasnt enough to keep us going strong???????????

Update:

18 both of us, both in college, have a child together, bth have jobs, been together 5 years!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Wow - very powerful. Makes me sad for you that things didn't work out. He really did love you and it sounds like you still care very much for him. I believe that we can love many different people, but there is only one person who we want to completely hand over our heart to. We can't explain why it's that person - it's just the way it is. You can only hope that when you meet that person, it is someone who is good for you and also that you don't walk away from someone perfectly wonderful because he isn't "the one". I believe very much in destiny. I know that this isn't really an answer, but when it comes to the heart, there is a lot that can't be explained. Sometimes you meet the right person at the wrong time in your life. I did. It took me 7 years to realize my mistake and find my way back to him. I wish you luck (and a part of me hopes that things might work out with the gentleman you described in your question).

  • 1 decade ago

    search your soul and find out what you want from this guy. Sit down and tell him , sounds like he would do anything for you. you just need to know what makes you happy. You need to find happiness from within yourself and then you can be happy with you man. if there is a love language that you want him to speak such as helping with chores or watching the baby you need to tell him but please dont' be mean to the poor guy. You are still young and finding a love language is a hard thing to do Good Luck to you

  • 1 decade ago

    That means he lied about being in love. Cause when in love, you will try everything possible to work things out.

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