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Why did my bf ask 2 marrie him and than broke up????
heres the story, my bf asked me 2 marrie him cause he will move 2 tx in dec, he came over gave me a ring and everything, than after he left i tried 2 call him but he didnt answer 4 like 3 days, than i had him on the phone and he told me he was thinking about the marriage thing again and he will need some time.
since that day he didnt call back and 2 weeks r left now, he just left me an offline 2 tell me he needs his "space" wtf
what should i do now
the problem about that is
my bf is american and hes stationed over here in germany and im german
he did send me the message 4 days be4 that he still loves me but doesnt answer his phone or im's at all
i love him 2
its hard 2 wait
should i wait or just give up
8 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Move on. Space, there's plenty of that to go around, especially in Texas. Maybe he started thinking about what kind of wife and mother you'd be, and then he got spooked? Maybe it's something wrong with him? It doesn't matter what the reason is: you don't let people treat you with disrespect like this. You just move on, learn from your mistakes, and become a better person. Good luck to you.
- pictureshygirlLv 71 decade ago
As heartbreaking as this is for you, you must do as he asked and give him space. By this I mean do not call him, write him or text him, no contact at all. He is obviously having cold feet regarding you and him getting married and it is vital that he has this time to himself with no pressure from you as to where he stands on this. Besides, if you both do decide to get married you will want to knowing that he did it out of free will. Give him this time, by all means keep yourself busy, he will call you one day and the both of you should then talk. I am so sorry this has happened on an otherwise happy occasion. I do hope it all works out for you.
- MargeLv 51 decade ago
space? Move on. sounds like he met someone and now is re thinking this attachment to you. Don't sit a wait by the phone..if he calls then great if not then great. Don't waste you life waiting for a loser who has seconds thoughts about you.
- ron-DLv 71 decade ago
If he was leaving, you should've known better. If a man likes what he sees in his new hometown, he won't get homesick. Sorry. At least you didn't marry him. Pawn the ring, and move on.
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- AdeLv 61 decade ago
You can demand that he tell you what's going on, but do it in a gentle, "I love you " kind of way. But if he won't open up, you may need to give him space for a while.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
firstly,
-it's probably because your german.
-he's desperate for sex.
-your stupid enough to believe him.