He thinks he's great in bed, but he's not. I've told him but he says he is.?

"They" ALL think they are good in bed!!! HAHAHAHAHA....95 percent of them aren't! Girl, just let him think what he wants! Men and their egos...hahaha...

Okay, but just telling him that he's not great in bed isn't going to change things. Men are not mind readers and no matter how close you feel to eachother, he's not just going to become some genius at pleasing you sexually. You need to take a larger role in your sex life. Don't be some submissive little ***** be a woman. If that means spreading your legs and giving him a guided tour and directions, do it. If that means throwing him down on the bed and going at him like a rabid monkey, do it, but don't complain 'you're not good in bed' without telling him why and don't just say, 'I kind of maybe would like more oral.' while you just lie there on your back taking it. Tell him how to please you!! Details people and be active!!

There are two types of guys those that think they are good in bed (and some of them are) and those who think they are not good in bed. I can tell you from experience that the ones who think they are not good in bed are AWFUL because they lack the self confidence and self esteem to even begin to be halfway decent. If you destroy his self esteem, it will only get worse. So I would work slowly, be sensitive, and covert and you might be able to improve him. When he actually does something good - make a HUGE deal about it - tell him that he is amazing, blah,blah, blah...maybe with that encouragement he will continue to do that one good thing. Over time he might pick up some more good habitats. Until then, I would get a vibrator :) they are always good.

Hope you haven't married him yet! He'll never believe he's anything less than wonderful, he'll just think you're frigid. Stop telling him about it and try encouraging him when he accidentally gets some little thing right. If you haven't married him yet, consider carefully before you do. I didn't and am stuck with a commitment to a nice guy that's awful in bed and doesn't care to get better.

Why don't you make some suggestions on how he can improve? Instead of putting him down, try building him up? I suspect now he's going to perform worse now, because in the back of his mind he's remembering what you said. A man's ego isn't always his best friend, but a woman can make or break him.

he might have been great in bed for other people, but that doesn't mean the same goes for you. he probably sees it as a self esteem blow that you don't think he's good in bed or the he can't satisfy you. just tell him what you need. if he's not open to that, i have no idea what you do. withhold sex until he listens. that's crappy thing to do, but so is not listening to your partner when they are trying to tell you something that would make your lives better.

Demand to be pleased tell him exactly what you want. And if the problem is, he is not making a good enough effort. Tell him you don't get off until I do..

He says this because someone else told him he was. If you don't like it, fix it. Tell him what you want and like, he isn't a mind reader. And telling him he is bad in bed isn't going to fix anything.

Maybe he knows someone who thinks he IS great it bed.

Takes two to be great in bed. You are 50% of the equation.

most time the person believe that they are great thing since

peanut butter. but just let him believe what he need to. but

since you been honest. with him, then that all you can do.