would guys think that yu are flirting them if you send them a lot of message when they are offline????

umm... no that doesn't sound like you were flirting. Are you kidding you sound like my little sister. Gawd, yes anything you say to a guy will make him think you are flirting, even if it's "I want a divorce." We are very simple creatures that need to have our egos fluffed, most of us are pretty dumb when it comes to women... So don't worry what he thinks.

It depends on what the messages say and how many you send.

If it is like a short message that sounds like you're trying to be a tease or just to say that you're bored and need something to do, then I would think you were flirting. If it is a 3 page email saying how much you can't stop thinking about him and how you will kill yourself if he doesn't reply to you in the next 5 seconds, I would have to say you were a desperate stalker that I would never want to speak to again.

If you were sending 2-3 messages over an 8 hour or more length of time, I wouldn't have a problem with that. If you were sending a message every 10 minutes, I would block you for fear that you are going to come to my house and shoot me.

Most guys don't like girls that sound desperate. If you can't keep your mind off him when he isn't talking to you, then leave your house and do something. If it doesn't at least get your mind off of him for a couple of hours then at least it keeps you away from the computer so that you don't make yourself seem desperate.

for me,, yes they may think that you're flirting.. but i think it's ok as long as he's not married.

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