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my best friend of 16 years has a husband that has cheated on her numerous times the latest is with the neighbo
on saturday she flat out busted them in the bar holding hands and he had his hand between her legs she beat up the lady called me crying her eyes out said she was ready to leave him then on sunday she went to their house to tell him it was over and somehow he talked her into beleiving that everyone at the bar was lying and he really has done nothing wrong what can i do to convince her to leave him for good. they have 2 girls and she is teaching them that this behavior is ok her girls are like my own children and they are so hurt and angry what do i say to them how do i prove to her that hes a cheater and will never change hellllllp
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I know what you mean. I had a friend like yours. She kept going back to him again and again.
Your friend is in denial. She will leave him when she decides to but till then nothing you say or do will change her mind. She will keep going back to him until she's had enough...it might take years though, especially when kids are involved it is doubly hard to pick up and leave.
I know it is frustrating to see your friend to suffer like this but all you can do for now is to offer a shoulder to cry on....
What these people are saying is also true: refrain from giving extreme adivces, you'll end up being the bad guy.
- 1 decade ago
She needs to leave him. She needs to show her kids that it is not okay to cheat, because she is staying with him and it can create a wrong impression of cheating, making the kids think that it's okay and your partner will stay with you anyways if you lie to them. It's better to move on and find a better father for those girls than stay with a guy who will raise them wrong.
- Lisa WLv 51 decade ago
She isn't going to listen until she makes up her own mind. There is nothing you can do or say. Remember if you do make comments about this schmuck, she will hold it against you......you will be the bad guy. She obviously is fooling herself...until she wises up keep out if it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Dont get involved. Nun your buissness. You dont run her life, Let her run her own life, Are you jealous? Shes got a husband and kids? Thats what it sounds like.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Stay out of it!She likes the drama or she would have left him long ago!
