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What do you do when you think your boyfriend has cheated on you?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. I went away this last weekend for a religious holiday and he stayed behind. He told me that he was working the whole weekend and I believed him. I have never doubted him before.

Yesterday a friend of mine asked to talk to me after class. She told me that she had seen my boyfriend out on Friday night, kissing another girl. She thought we had broken up so she hadn't stopped it from happening, but when she had seen us together yesterday morning she had realised that we weren't broken up and she decided to tell me.

I love my boyfriend and until yesterday I trusted him completely. I don't know what to do now. I don't know how to even start to confront him about it! I couldn't even sleep last night because I was so worried about everything and it all just kept running through my mind. What would you suggest I do?

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  • kitty
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I know the thought of being hurt is hard, but better you find out now that he is a cheater than to go any further.

    Confront him and let him know he was seen kissing another girl.

    Don't let him whine his way out of it.

    Then you decide what to do if he confesses.

    Don't let this eat you up, talk to him soon!

  • 1 decade ago

    well confront him about it..start by asking him wat he did on the weekend on a certain time...like, "what were u doing on the friday evening.."...if he thinks about it or studders u know hes lying or making things up..if he says ur confused or just plain tripping..ask why he thinks this way..if u think u dont wanna go around the bush so much then ask him straighht out by saying, someone told me that they saw u with a girl on friday..dont tell him that they saw him kissing a girl but just that they saw him..if u tell him that they saw him kissing a girl he wil probably try to deny it right away..try to get the truth out and ALWAYS remember that there are a lot oh haters out out there...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Um just tell him you know he was kissing another girl and when he tells you it's not true, tell him to shut his mouth because he is only making you more mad... You know, so his lies will not convince you otherwise...

    Move on. You are too young for a serious boyfriend anyway.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    awww pooor you.. well its really simple.. just ask him " what did u do on friday night?" i heard that u were kissing a girl was it true? if he says yes, break up with him.. dont even think about giving him a chance.. what kind of boyfriend is that???

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you are not married to him so what if you are dating he is not tied down to you and maybe you sould have stayed home that weekend and been there for him sounds like someone was there for him

  • 1 decade ago

    u do nothing and move on your too young for that kind of nonsense

  • 1 decade ago

    leave him!! Once a cheater always a cheater

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