did he even truly love me after 3 years?? why did he move on so fast????

I'd bet two to one that she does things to him in bed that you did not do.

Well, whatever said & done it's not that easy to forget someone you've been together with for 3years.

I'm sure he truly loved you & probably still does. But sometimes, when it's so hard to get over someone people do crazy things. It may not seem irrational later on, but at that time all you want is to get over the hurt & pain. You tend to become selfish & not think about others.

So, don't ever doubt whatever you guys had & shared. True...... it's unfortunate that you can't be with him.

But that's how life is, you can't always have what you want & what you get may not always be the best you could get.

So, try to focus your concentration on something else & move on. Meet new people, find newer things to do. Enjoy your time on your own.

Don't look for love right now coz you need to get over him first.

Take your time....You'll be ok.

Take care.

Dear Love Lost, I'm sorry to hear your story, though a common one. So many times we don't know what we've got til its gone. Its clear that hes' made a mistake. But please don't make one yourself. Don't let him run to you when things go wrong with him. Sure you might know him like no one else and sure you still love him, but don't do it.

Your a great catch and you deserve unconditional and undivided love and attention.And though you might think you'll never have a love like this.Believe me you will and it will be so much more that you imagined love could be.Adios y buena suerte ;-)

you were his first?.....He is a man !!!, cant stop at one.........I'm sure as you were his first he wanted to experiment some more.(having gained a bit of confidence in the bedroom department) I do believe he loved you, god, you gave him feelings and emotions he had never felt before,you were his first love but now, someone else is giving him that but a bit of variety, and she wont be the last (marriage or not), but just know you will always have been his first and hold a special place in his heart. Who knows, after he has sown his oats, he might seek back his first love, but dont wait for him....just move on, if its meant to be it will happen...

He's playing mind games with you! Every time i get in to fight with the girl hes with, He come running to you! Y? If you keep let him in to your life your giving him the green light to hurt you. Over and Over! But i understand, My ex do the same thing! Every time he feel that he cant do it anymore with this girl hes with. He will call me,( And I'm Still In Love With Him) So i have to act that i care! When i want to tell him to stop bothering me with his problem! So it been almost 3 days the last time we saw it each! It hard as hell! But that when i knew i had to let go! And that's the hard thing i had to do! it killing me! not being able to talk to him our b in hes arms! There was one point in the whole he did love you! But it time to let it go! Its not good for you! Gd luck

I am shocked at how guys can be so stupid, honey I understand you and you know what I think, I think that he always loved you, and he still loves you and he will love you forever. he will realize that someday, but I think that you will be married by then and he might wanna go back to his ugly wife.

keep your mood up and enjoy your life

and remember that you are a great person

much love and respect

wake up girl..... hes playing you like a guitar..... he will find someone then broke up just because he doesnt like the girl then goes back to you?? what are you ... a piece of cloth? if I dont need you ill just leave you there.... then get you if i needed you?

aw.... thats the problem when you give everything up to a wrong person....

by the way its not how long the relationship past... its how fruitfull it become....

It is not your fault that he does not know what he wants, but it is your fault to continue to give him the opportunity to run back and forth from women to women.

Don't take him back. He does not respect you and has moved on to another.

He prob did love you in his way but there is a better, truer way to love and this is NOT it.

Move on or be used, your choice.

hon i'v been where u r ,u got to go on cause thats the pass .you'll find someone hopefulley not to soon! you need your time for you ok just smell life,love and live.

obviously this guy is confused. he doesn't know what he wants. just move on find someone who won't leave you questioning your relationship or your feelings for each other.