Every time you get hurt, you become more solid and heartless?

I think that to some degree it is true b/c once you been hurt...you're extremely sensitive and have a tendency to analyze situations more than usual. The trust factor is the issue here. Should I trust this person? Am I being played? Love is a risk. You have to weigh and figure out if that person is worth the risk ...or not.

well for me im not heartless i just dont let my emotions show as much as i used to so some people might think i am, i dont trust people and i've come to rely on myself only, with the exception of my brother... it's a lonely and depressing life i live so no matter what don't ever become like this, alot of my friends have been hurt but they got over it, still trust and are really happy people

good luck

Depends on the individual. I try to learn the lessons available so I can avoid a similar situation in the future, but I don't become harder and less available emotionally.

Life is full of risks, and so is romance...if we don't risk the pain, we can't experience the pleasure.

None for me.... been hurt a lot of times and each time open up like never before... i always get hurt but one day someone will appreciate it.