What have I done ??????? Help Plz.....10 points for u !!!!?

My advice to you would be to tell your current b/f what happened. See what goes from there and relax!

If your boyfriend told you he kissed another girl would you be upset; feel like you had been cheated on? My boyfriend and I were dating long distance for 9 months and we had a rule between us: Don't do anything that you don't want me to do. That means if I don't want you to kiss other people, then I won't kiss other people. If I don't want you hanging out with your ex's then I won't hang out with my ex's.

If I were you I would tell the new boyfriend what happened and take some time apart. Then I would tell the ex-boyfriend I needed some time to think. I would spend some time alone, not dating or kissing anyone. I would think a lot about the two men, their good qualities and their bad qualities, and decide between them.

I would not string along the current boyfriend. I would not string along the ex-boyfriend. I would be truthful with both of them, telling them I was confused about my feelings and needed to sort them out. I would take the time and really think things through. I would try to be considerate of both men's feelings, while understanding that they both might get hurt or angry with me. That is okay. I think in the long run both will appreciate the truth and that you took the time to do the right thing. Take a break, calm yourself, think things through. Decide what is best for yourself and go from there.

You broke up with him for smoking pot? And because it hurt you that he smoked pot? I don't think you two are meant for each other, call it a hunch. Basically, you were trying to make your boyfriend be someone he's not. That's why you broke up.

Also, if this other guy you are dating kissed some other girl, would you feel betrayed (ie cheated)? If the answer is yes, then it's pretty clear that you cheated on your current man.

I think you need to not see either of these guys as you don't tolerate light drug use, and your ex seems to enjoy pot. And you need to come clean with the other guy as you evidently are not worthy of being in a committed relationship with him.

I think it could be something of momentary that u guys ended up kissing. U dont have to feel guilty about this part for sure.U havent mentioned if u felt for him before u met him at the baby shower. I personally think you should stick with your current boyfriend. Also its not fair to him. Just let the time pass by and you will know what is right for you. Moreover you never know.. ur current boyfriend can turn out to be someone who truly loves n cares for u. In the meantime u will also know if ur ex truly loves u.

so he smoked pot once. everyone tries something at least once in their life. Well if he was honest and told you about it, I think it was just a one time thing. If the feelings are there still for both of you, GO FOR IT!!

don't be like me and always wonder what would happen if I did this or that

Good luck with that

oh by the way don't string the other guy along. If you go back let the other one know

Dont feel bad.Alot of people well almost all people, think with their hearts instead of their brain.If you really felt you still love your ex then you have nothing to feel guilty about.If you break up with your new Boyfriend to go back to your ex your new one may be hurt at first but if you are with him yet have stronger feelings for another guy then its not fair to him that you stay.Because you could both be keeping each other from finding someone who you truly love.You broke up because he smoked pot? Thats kind of a silly reason dont you think?I mean coke or crack yeah, but pot?

sweetie, on my own opinion, you must stick with the guy you're with right now. you already said that you really like this new guy, then go! you can further develop that feeling as you get to know each other. Also, we may not know what your ex can do when you're back in his arms. He might hurt you more compared to the past scenario. Be an intelligent girl. it is not all about the heart, the mind also plays a vital role. Remember, that new guy may open a brighter chapter of your life. just wait for that moment. it will come, in God's time.

Remember. They call them Ex's for a reason... if he knew you didnt want him smokingm and hhe did it anyway... he didnt have a problem breaking your trust, meening he will do it again most likely!

What you need to do though is tell your new boyfriend, that things happened at the shower... just be honest with him... i dont think he would care, just say you went to hug and he kissed you... it wasnt a big deal, but you didnt want to hold it from him.

your new boyfriend will respect you much more, and most likely not care... but if he find out form someone else he will think you are always messing around behind his back...

Hope this helps!

First off Kissing is cheating to a point if you love your current b\F then you need to explain what happened and work through it if you don't love him and love the EX then you still need to explain to your current B\F what happened and that you feel like you have to try again with the EX. Now the thing with this is if you can't trust your EX and can't forget what he did it isn't going to work out so you have allot to think about!

I do consider kissing cheating.. um you should figure why those feeling are still, and was that reason for breaking a good one. I think you should get with the ex, because the way you talk about him you need to be with him.

well u still have feelings for the x that natural but u broke up be cause he smoked pot right well that's how it starts as for the new boy friend ma be you should take time for your self no relationships just friends reason well i have seen what drugs do to friends and family dint go down that path not purity and the new guy well he seems to be a rebound thing and they dint last long trust me was with my other half for long time now we separated over 12 months ago take your time dint rush u have your hole life ahead of u