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my boy friend wants to leave for 10 days?
he wants to go to australlia for 10 days
heres the problem i will not go because of are 4 kids who are 3,2,1, and 3 months.
he went to puerto rico and florida last year
i dont want him to go and ive already told him i will not be here when he gets back i dont want to sit around while he goes on all these trips. what should i do am i being to hard on him?
i forgot to mention i will not take an airplane
but i have sat and tryed to tell him i dont think its fair he goes
i have tryed to compermise and talk him into going some where drive able with all of us but he is dead set on going regardless of how i feel
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
do you get to go away on similar trips? do you take family vacations together that are equivalent to his travels (i'm not talking about visiting family)?
if the answer is no, then you need to sit him down and discuss the inequity of the situation. the money being spent on these trips should be spent on something the whole family can enjoy, not to mention that the family as a whole should be doing things together.
if it were me, i'd insist that he give up his travel plans until the whole family can be included or come up with some ideas for a compromise that you both can live with. it's not fair for you to sit home with children you both are responsible for while he runs around the world playing.
- SoBoxLv 71 decade ago
OK...you stated in another post that you can't afford to buy enough diapers to change your kids as often as they should be changed, yet their father wants to take off on fancy trips? Sorry, but he doesn't sound like a ver responsible or mature parent. That he took off on not one, but two trips last year, and left you home alone with 4 babies is pathetic. Tell him to go if he wants, but to make sure to take all his stuff with him because it's over if he leaves you to be the responsible parent while he goes out and parties. And if he does go, stick to your guns and don't take him back. Otherwise, he'll never grow up and he'll keep treating you like a doormat.
- Scout729Lv 51 decade ago
If he goes, don't be there when he gets back. Thats insane, he gets to go on vacation and u don't? You should take off for 2 days I bet he can't handle 4 kids that young on his own
- billgoats79Lv 51 decade ago
if he wants to go, and invited you to go with him... then you are being to harsh yes. Tell him you'll go when the youngest is 1 year old. Make some kiond of compromise before you just go for a divorce.
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- 1 decade ago
why did you guys have kids out of wedlock, 1 was bad but 4 kids? you should've thought about that. that is why you can't go nowhere b/c you have 4 kids to tug along.
- 1 decade ago
ok, seriously, he invited you to go along. it's not like he just packed up and left on some vacation. so, yes, you are being to harsh. everyone deserves a vacation.
