ALL THESE WOMEN WHO HATE SEX FEEL IT IS NOT FAIR TO DIVORCE BECAUSE OF AN ABSENCE OF SEX..that is interesting?

I was in the opposite situation, I was the wife who loved sex, he was the husband who didn't. I am in shape and very attractive, he was overweight and not very attractive......in the end I did divorce his fat a**

You worded your question in a somewhat confusing way but I think I understand what you're saying.

Sex is a big part of a relationship so if it ceases there will be some trouble for sure. And the person who is "withholding" (not just a couple of weeks or even a couple of months, because that sometimes happens when you're married for a while - but for a LONG time) is going to be at least somewhat to blame if their spouse wanted to divorce because of it. That's my opinion. :)

Many women use sex as a tool to land the position of "Wife"

Once they have the ring, the house keys and the joint checking account they feel they've accomplished their goal and the sex starts to dwindle, next the pounds start to accumulate, then they start to get lazy and even sometimes mean.

The crazy thing is that the marriage contract gives her such powerful job security she will quite often get away with it, maybe not forever ,but for a long time.

If there is no marriage contract, there is no job security and she will be forced to earn her keep.

There is no advantage for a man to get married, the advantages are all for the woman.

Most of the girls on here are normal women, and normal women like sex. The most prude ones in public are the wildest in the bedroom. I married one. It's a curse, and a blessing. Why do you think all of the women on answers hate sex? Some of them talk about it rather candidly. Nothing gross or anything, they just sound like normal women. We all like sex no matter what we say. People who don't like sex aren't getting any. BOTTOM LINE.

There is an interesting bit of fact relating to women hating sex.

Seems that roughly 10% of kids brought in for genetic testing prove to have NO RELATION to the supposed father.

Now, what kind of moron would take the kid in KNOWING she'll be found out?

The same kind of woman who marries for a paycheck.

She knows she can't be harmed by the man she defrauded, so why not?

He can't fire her unless he's willing to lose it all, he can't just shoot her, and we don't have beheadings for unfaithfulness.

It's a free ride.

I would never leave someone I was married to if they could not have sex for medical reasons.

However...

If it was willful and assuming age was not an issue, then yes, I would file for divorce.

A marriage void of intimacy, is not a marriage I would ever stay in.

If a woman stops having sex with a man she obviously isn't attracted to him anymore. Divorce sounds like the right thing to do in that situation.

If your girlfriend is a sex hater, why would you think marriage would change that? If she liked sex before marriage, consider that maybe after the honeymoon/lovey dovey phase of the relationship ended she realized just how boring/awful you are in bed and that you're incapable of pleasing her physically thus avoiding sex for more pleasurable activities.

I say it is a fair reason to divorce unless there is a medical condition and she has tried to fix it but can't.

I would like to educate you males ALOT, so here goes.........

Most men have a job right?????, so the only time to have sex with their wife is when they are home from work which is mainly night time correct??????. Well let me let you in on a little secret so you can become more educated males, NOT ALL WOMEN ARE HORNY AT NIGHT TIME. This might surprise you big time but there are alot of women out there that are wanting sex during the day because that's when they are horny. It may be in the mornings or it may be in the afternoons, BUT ITS NOT NIGHT TIME ALL THE TIME AND YOU EXPECT THE FEMALE TO BE HORNY AT NIGHTS ONLY??????? WRONG WRONG WRONG.