How would one tactfully approach the life partner of a dear friend who has the HIV virus, possibly AIDS?

You sweet sweet girl. You are a good friend to be so concerned. I'm sure that they both are aware of this. I don't believe that you have lost touch anymore than everyone else in their lives. It's a hard time for him at the moment. He feels ashamed and depressed. I know personally what you are talking about.

My advise, keep calling. Bug the Hell out of them, if necessary. What ever you do, don't let them think for one minute that you aren't there. They need you so badly right now. In time, this will pass. But knowing that you care and are doing your best to keep in touch, means the world to both of them.

We need friends like you around, and people like you in the world. You have a big heart and a caring soul. Bless you.

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sorry to hear about ur friend

What may be most likely is that they are trying not to make a big deal of it having a person u care for dat has HIV its not so easy you try to make person feel more confortable and make them feel better on wateva they do.

Dont ask just yet try to get in touch once a week (really depends on u) they sometimes get aggresive easily due to the med. that they take so try to be patient I think they will tell you when something happens. Just try to be in contact still everything in life happens for a reason even if it doesnt seem fair.

Unfortunately, no, you don't butt in on this one. For some reason or another the partner (and maybe your friend) doesn't seem to want to speak to you. If you happen to know the friend's family or other friends, you might consider asking one of them about this particular situation. Ask them if they know why you are not being allowed to speak to your friend.

It could be that your friend's condition has progressed and he has deteriorated to the point of having a form of dementia where for some reason he feels you are not looking out for his best interest. You can't control that situation at all.

A person who would stick by another duricng such a trying time is unlikely to be the type who is wanting his lover to die. AND this partner is calling with updates on his lovers health - another good sign this person is a loving caring partner.

I think you are way off base on this issue. Continue to send e-mails.

Try to stay in touch with your friend. Unitl you clear if from them personally, I would not believe any of his partners excuses. If your friend thinks you are butting in too much he should let you know.

It doesn't hurt to keep trying. There may be some jealousy on the part of his partner. I would keep attempting to contact him.

they both would have HIV would they not?you should talk to them all you can and maybe try and help your friend feel better life is short enough