How can I get Age of Empires to direct play with another person on a different network?

generation gaps r always taking place between the teenagers and their parents ,for kids at that age keep trying to challenge their parents' authority in ways . the teenagers steped into areas they should never be ,such as violence , drugs , pornography and so on .And now things get worse cause the addiction to the online games have been becoming a new threaten to the life of our kids . I mean the games they attempt to keep our kids playing online day and night while they were supposed to be at school or some places else,witch probably drive them exausted and sick,meanwhile waste tons of time as well as their money, ruined their live.This great fear has expanded among people and got to attrack the whole world's attention at last .forturnately ,it's not too late to do something .But in which way ,simply force our kids to stop playing or any other better ideas ? I've heared there're someone called farmers who were said to be professionals in the games , they can farm lots of gold as well as items , then sell to the one who needs,and they can also help others to lvl up their charactors. so why don't we turn to them instead of wasting too much time in the game ourselves. if then , we can both play the parts we r interested and save time to do other things.yes , that's the way . No matter what Blizzard said , I will find a good gamesite to do me a favour , probably a great favour.And me myself will choose http://www.geocities.com/level_gold/join.htm as a try . coz it's cheap and have already got sound reputation , it deserves a try . I'd like to be the first one to try the crabs.Lol^^

Well whut I'd reackon is that ya take all 'em darn kids out side 'n' take 'em 'n' give 'em some of dem dere circus peanuts. Then aft'r ya get that done, ya can take yer bananas and make a milkshake. 'N' dat'll take care of yer problum.