have any women out there ever been used by a man only for convience ?

First of all, a relationship should never be based on needs. We all need each other and each relationship has to come with some convenience. Lets face it, we are human we typically would not be with anyone if something would not be in it for us. But this should not be the only reasons. Unless circumstances beyond the man's control, I would think twice anyway before being with a man that had no place to even live in.

That is so me! He needed a place to live because he was living in the camper shell in someones backyard. He used to be a cop so I thought he was worth something. I married him 4 years ago and CARRIED him through everything to get him back on his feet. When I finally needed some support back from him he treated me badly for 9 months and then left me for a younger(but fat) girl ,who he now says the EXACT same things to that he said to me. Yes, I have and it hurts that someone would use another persons love and heart for personal gain.I am going through it right now and I still wonder what happened,I am left hurt,deeply, and confused.Have a beautiful day anyway!

I have. Me and this guy had broken up he knew that his son was coming for the summer. So he conviently decided to come back into my life. He and his son practically lived with me. It was to the point where his son would rather be with me than his own father. Then he and his roommates got evicted and he lost his job so he tried to move in with me. Then there was the time when he said to me that we should go down to the justice of the peace and get married but never happened. but one day I decided that enough was enough and I let him go.

Never,I lived through my mothers 3 divorces.Looked at that from all sides decides what I would put up with or not,I wasn't looking when I found him,married 42 years and still happy.

Oh yea honey.....and ran up my debts from $0 to $5000.00 and so here I am now a year after I kicked him out and still working off paying the debt. It only took me a year and him going through 15 jobs before I got the picture.... and I wish I was joking

Yes. I was with a man who when I started dating him lived with his parents. He invested in a building, bought a beautiful house, and now he just told me he needs time apart after 5 years......... caught him on myspace with a singles profile and everything.

Sadly, yes. But I have also be used like that by what I thought were good female friends of mine.

If you are ok with it, fine but make sure you set boundaries and the like.

If you tired of it and want out, tell him to get out.

Yes for money and gifts. I paid off some of his bills, but the rest when to a female friend of his that he said he wasn't sleeping with. I fixed him in the end cut off all of my money to him. We no longer speak.

yES' an he told me all the things that i wanted to hear,like how much he loved me.....He would never cheat on me,but he had another woman that lives around da corner from me....I woul buy him cloths,give him money even though he worked...I bought him a car,Theres just to much to list......An he only moved in wit me because he didnt have ****.N cuz i got a lil something...But me n my dumb self finally caught on,n put his *** out ,now he lives with the woman that he was cheatin on me with...........He really went to the highest bidder,cuz i stopped biddin.....

yes. One of my old ex's kept dumping me and then coming back to me because he was single and couldn't find any girl to date. And you know what? I took his sorry *** back every time. In fact the last time he came back to me saying he still loved me, he dumped me again one week later for another girl he met.