If you could afford to have servants(cook,maid,chauffeur,nanny,butler,etc)....would you actually want them???

When I was in Indonesia, I had about four maids, two chauffeurs, and two cooks; they practically did everything for me. I was spoiled.

But now, after living eight years in the U.S. I don't think I would ever want a maid or chauffeur anymore. I enjoy my independence and privacy (there are some days that I would REALLY want to have them back). But I believe that it's better to rely on myself to do even the most mundane everyday things, especially since I'm very paranoid about my organized mess.

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I think it'd be nice to have them around, but I have to pay them. If I can afford them, then YES. Else, I'll have to make do without them, LOL.

Not sure about the nanny tho (altho I'd jump for a good home-school teacher).

On the privacy point, I DO like my privacy, however, I understand that they can be unintrusive (if there's really such a word), it's a matter of making adjustments on both sides. Like no-enter zones, no-bother times, etc. etc. Of course, they're also entitled to off-times when I shouldn't bother them, LOL! Perfect time for me to be on my own, huh? :)

I might want a cook but not one that lived with me. Maybe someone that came in a few times a week and prepared a few dishes and left them in the refrigerator for me. A once a week maid would be ok too. I just wouldn't want anyone living in my house that worked for me.

for me, i just don't see the point. i don't care abt the privacy part, but i don't want to be dependent on someone else. my family can very well afford a chauffeur and a maid, but that sort of relaxed lifestyle just doesn't suit me. i'd hate to get all spoilt and lazy, and i like being independent, thank you very much.

I had a Hispanic housekeeper. The only problem is she didn't speak English and my Spanglish is terrible. I never felt comfortable with her because we couldn't communicate. So I finally let her go. I also felt that I cleaned before she got there. I mean picking up is the worse part anyway. So now I just do it myself.

Help sometimes would be nice but I wouldn't like having someone around all the time. A driver would be nice when I go out with my friends though.

I`ve been on the "servant" side and yes I would want them if I could afford them, theres ways of being private in your own home.

I would love to have people to help me because I have some physical issues that limit me. I'd adjust to their presence.

I really can't see me with servants though, I'm too much of a peasant!

Yes, i'd take the cook and maid.. No nanny for me. I like my kids most days.. lol..