i need advice?

We keep a chart on the fridge...but its to track GOOD behavior as well as bad...just as kids need to be reminded of the rules at times they also need to hear postitive feedback. Our chart has velcro smiley faces and frowny faces...each with different categories that target whatever their current trouble spots are. At the end of the week, if there are no frowns on the chart there is a reward!!

I found the best way is to talk to your children and try to start a reward system. Something small like stickers! I have found the best punishment to be the corner for as many minutes as your child is old. Then I ask my daughter if she knows why I put her in the corner and talk about ways to make sure It doesn't happen again!!

I love stickers too, and I also got a video from the library called 1-2-3 Magic, he has a book too. These techniques both work well for me.

take his things away, and he gets them back one at a time with good behaviour. if he is in any activities like soccer, skating, or anything, take it away from him. He will get the point. im in the process right now with my 6 yr old girl